Well. i would really just use my imagination, and send a tell to the other player, which im going to do from now on for the sake of all parts in this, maybe something like: "Hello, the following curses and mockeries are for RP purposes only, if you at any time feel uncomfortable in this just tell me to stop and i will respect that. If not, lets play..
Maybe even do a //"Hello..." so all parts can see it and take a screenshot just in case
no just kidding. But the subject has been pretty well disgussed by now and im permanently shutting up about this heh.