Re: When is being a friend still being a friend? I get the impression that you've lost a friend. From my experience you don't suddenly loose friends but drift away - unless you have super duper conflicting views about something.
As for your friend, it was his decision and I know it will hurt to see it, but I'm sure she somehow treats him differently and he likes it. Maybe he likes this woman treating him like this - People have hidden qualities you know.
As for your friend, keep in touch but don't influence it anymore - you could be making it worse in some ways. BUT, I don't know what your friendship is like with him - from reading it I sense a strong relationship here.
Hope this helps,
Edd. |