RE: When is being a friend still being a friend? I hate to see you crush your own spirit and heart because someone else made a mistake. He has to come to realization of the error before he can move on.
As someone said earlier...he sees something in her that nobody else does...as you have seen in your friend that you have by your description done so much for already..including saving his life.
Don't be so quick to give up...you are right that the pieces will fall and he will need someone there to help pick them back up.
I have stood where you are many times and I will continue to stand there for those that I call friends whether they make stupid mistakes or not because someday I will need the strength of a friend as well. Keep yourself strong and do not create this bitter part of your life.
Remember...a true friend will give of himself and not expect anything in return. Stay strong buddy... |