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Title: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike?
Post by: lonnarin on September 14, 2007, 11:44:58 am
I just saw Leanthar's recent message about RPing diety relationships between characters, which I somewhat agree with.  However, some deity relationships make no sense to begin with.  For example, Xeen is Friendly towards Folian, but Folian Dislikes Xeen.  In this case, if a Folianite and Xeenite become friends, are they only half in the wrong?  Should all Xeenite clerics pester Folianite clerics with party invitations, and Folianites treat the Xeenites with utter contempt for their adoration?  Would two such clerics partying together get along or hate eachother in this case?

Next is the issue of Likes and Dislikes that don't make sense to begin with.  Like Toran the defender of the weak and of the common man who seems to have a mutual disdain for Prunilla, the patron of the peasant farmers and the happy home... Does this mean that LG paladins who are sworn to protect their homelands and the peasant farmers secretly HATE them as they do so?  Do the farmers gripe that the paladins should quit patrolling the outskirts and roads so that orc hoardes can raid their farms more often?  Deep down inside, do Toranite paladins fantasize of raiding innocent farmers, laying waste to their crops and burning down their barns for valuing agriculture above martial law?

Then what about Aeridenites and Azattans who by the very virtue of their faith must show loving kindness to all forms of life?  Even though they might hate Corath himself for what he preaches, how do they view Corathites who by virtue of Azattan theology are capable of redemption without exception, and by virtue of Aeridenite theology, are entitled to their life, and should be peacefully dealt with?

I can understand the clear oppositional gods like Toran vs Corath, Dorand Vs Grand and Grannoch, Vorax vs Pyrtechon or Sulterio... but it's the strange exceptions mentioned above that give me pause.  I would like to see more background lore and explaination as to why some gods hate the gods that love them, and why guardian paladins hate the very people they are sworn to protect.  How should an Aeridenite approach a Corathite when peace is all he should know?  Are there some followers of gods that Azattans feel are beyond redemption?  Those have been the nagging questions in the back of my mind regarding deity relations.

One more question, should followers of illegal gods who must worship in secret like Corathites be openly aggressive towards opposing gods publicly?  The smart corathite cleric I would think would keep his disdain under wraps for fear of being burned at the stake, since its a dead giveaway once he starts RPing his diety relationship chart.  What better way to hide his religion from the public than to pretend to be friends with the neighborhood paladin?  Trickery is part of his portfolio, after all.  I never saw Rufus or Chanda wear their deity relationships on their sleeves, which is precisely what made them such good Corathites.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Weeblie on September 14, 2007, 11:56:14 am
Just a short answer here, as I don't have much time for a longer ones.

The strange deity conflicts are generally steeming from a particular event and less due to theological grounds. Could for example be so that to fight the evil of the world, either an old artifact of Toran had to be sacrificed or an old one from Prunilla. And if the party were of Toranites, doing the later would have been the likely outcome, although it afterwards created a huge gap between two otherwise good gods.

I did of course just made that story up now but I hope you do get the point... :)

As for a big clarficiation of what I consider, a good point of attack for hostile deity relationships, and this especially being true for evil/"bad" deities: You can be friendly, chatty, like any other close friend. But if it comes to the point that your "enemy" needs your help and your own god/goddess gains nothing from it, then you should avoid giving that aid and perhaps even try to push it towards an even bigger failure!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: ShiffDrgnhrt on September 14, 2007, 12:01:22 pm
I'd wanna know why Beryl, a God purely of Craft from what I know of the Dogma, is "unfriendly" with Toran...
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Kirbiana on September 14, 2007, 12:06:44 pm
I always figured that Beryl, being a little on the tricksy side in order to get sparkly things snuck out of dark places, didn't always see eye to eye with the stand-up lawful goodness of Toran.  I RP the unfriendliness more as 'pulling the leg' of any state cops -- er -- Toranites my little gnome happens to know and then completely disregarding their orders about where she can legally park her ox.
 
 :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 14, 2007, 12:18:20 pm
I'll answer a couple of these questions, though you may not like the answers. :)

First and foremost, the reason why one deity does not like another really only needs to make sense to that deity and no one else. I know that sounds a lot like "Shut up and do what you're told" but that's not quite what I'm saying. In an IC sense, who are we to know the minds of our gods? In an OOC sense, Leanthar and probably EdTheKet have their reasons for designing the relations as they have.  Some of these relations have been shaped due to in-game actions. Others are the result of a vast backstory which is not common knowledge among commoners, adventurers, clergy, players and almost every GM.  I can honestly tell you that I do not know the exact reason for most of the deity relations, especially the ones that seem odd.  For most of them though, they are simple matters of disagreement between philosophies and dogma.

Regarding some of the specific cases raised:

With respect to Aeridinites and Corathites, they're pretty much in extreme opposition.  Aeridin teaches the sanctity and purity of life, where Corath is all about corruption, death, etc.  Aeridin does not require his clerics to heal everyone, as death is a part of life, so an Aeridinite cleric doesn't have to go out of his way to heal followers of enemy gods.  He can...and an instance or two might be seen as tolerable depending on the situation, but as a regular occurrence, it shouldn't happen.  Should an Aeridinite deal peacefully with a Corathite? Sure unless there was no other choice, but that doesn't mean they should become too friendly or willingly and freely offer his god's healing and such to a follower of Corath.

Az'attans are perhaps the exception to the whole thing, as Az'atta has a dogma of redemption and all are worthy of such.  So that means that an Az'attan cleric may heal or raise a follower of an enemy god, but that such actions might be part of a process of bringing said follower to redemption rather than just a regular grouping up thing.

In both cases, intent aside, certain means of aiding enemies (i.e. raise dead/resurrection) comes at a cost to the cleric, and that too should be RPed and not just shrugged off.

I know a lot of people want to know "Why?" for those cases where it seems odd.  Unfortunately, I don't know.  And if I knew but Leanthar and/or EdTheKet did not wish the information to be let out, then I still could not tell you.  

If I had to speculate, which I do often, I'd say the reasoning behind not making the details of these relationships well-known is quite simple.  It either has to do with plot-level events in the past, present and future and/or it has to do with the fact that by exposing the details of these relationships a lot of other important and relatively obscure lore would be exposed as well.  Perhaps a few people in all the world (the whole Layo world, not just those few adventurers in our little cross-section) know just a bit of such details, some are likely lost to time while others occurred solely in the Heavens, where there are far too few mortal witnesses to tell the tale.

Believe me, I understand the curiosity of the community in such regards, as I share it too...not for my character's understanding but for my own. But then I'm like that sometimes.  Even so, I understand and respect the reasons why this information is not in the public knowledge.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Varka on September 14, 2007, 12:32:17 pm
Same playground but other topic.

You have the written Lore, history and common rules to play by which works for both deities and in some way races. Let us call it the theoretically part.

Then you have time zones, numbers of players and their deities, the moral , It should be fun to play the game.  Let us call it the practically part.

Further more and last you have updates. Like new resting time which simply works without doing anything and then you have the Verbal Laws like this one.

Who do you think will throw an IC and OOC friendship of 1 month or 3 years to the ground simply because and Verbal Law is stated? (could not find a better word than law at this point)

There is only one way which would maybe make that theoretically part achievable but a 100 percent guarantee is not given.

This is not written to anyone specific. It merely another point of view and few things to consider.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 14, 2007, 12:45:29 pm
Good and valid question.  

I might also ask in return, why throw out 5+ RL years of lore and backstory, systems and in-game effort because our characters wish to be best buddies with followers of enemies of their deities?

But that's not really what's being said.  

To say that clerics of Aeridin and Corath, knowing the faiths of each other, should go on picnics together is rather absurd.  And if somehow this is backed up by in-game RP, then it was probably bad RP, unless for example the Corathite went through great lengths to deceive and misdirect.

Can clerics, paladins and followers of enemy and unfriendly deities interact and associate?  Absolutely.  Can they travel together? Of course.  Can there be mutual respect?  Surely! Should they be all hugs and smiles? Absolutely not. Should there be an ever-present tension? I'd say that would be appropriate.

And remember, the requirement of portraying deity relations falls most strongly on clerics, paladins and Champions, where each applies.  The non-divine followers of deities might be aware of such things, but may not care as much nor are they under the same indoctrination and responsibility to portray these things.  I think it's good if they do, of course.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 14, 2007, 12:49:32 pm
Incidentally, this is not a new rule....it's always been the case.  

Divinely empowered characters are required to agree to upholding the dogma and preferences of their respective deities when they submit their characters.  Prior to that, it was just understood, but I guess enough people didn't understand that and so we added that requirement at submission time.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: lonnarin on September 14, 2007, 12:50:12 pm
Quote from: Dorganath


Can clerics, paladins and followers of enemy and unfriendly deities interact and associate?  Absolutely.  Can they travel together? Of course.  Can there be mutual respect?  Surely! Should they be all hugs and smiles? Absolutely not. Should there be an ever-present tension? I'd say that would be appropriate.



Very good point there.  It's not that they can't coexist, it's that they do so in a pretty turbulent manner.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: ShiffDrgnhrt on September 14, 2007, 12:50:16 pm
One question:

It's clear that the "divine" classes should adhere to the Diety Relations strongly, but what happens when say, A Toranite Cleric would meet a Berylite Jeweler, or say a Corathite scholar?  NOT devout worshippers of unliked/hated dieties, but "commoners" that merely respect a god for one reason or another...
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 14, 2007, 12:54:28 pm
Well if said jeweler or scholar or whatever was blatantly overt about their faith, then the cleric should act appropriately.

In the Berylite case, the cleric may hold his tongue or indicate distaste or whatever seems appropriate at the time and in keeping with what Toran thinks about Beryl.

In the Corathite case....well, Toranites pretty much view Corath worship as an illegal act, so again, the cleric should act appropriately.

That said, if the relationship is not known, then there's no reason to act any differently.

Also, remember that Clerics have that wonderful cantrip Divine Relation.  It doesn't tell specific deities, but it does tell the relationship between the cleric's deity and the target's.

A handy tool...people should use it. :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: ShiffDrgnhrt on September 14, 2007, 01:03:07 pm
Well I have to say that there are a NUMBER of relationships IG and IC with PCs of not necessarily hated but unfriendly gods that manage to get along well enough.  Now I'm not gonna say that its right or whatever for an RP server to have such things ignored, but each situation should be looked at individually...  Sure, my Berylite Jeweler IS friends with a Toranite Cleric, and they are both very friendly, but at the Same time Shiff is rather open about not liking OTHER Toranites, and his friend knows this.  Now whether its BAD RP or not, I'm not gonna say, but each situation should be looked at first before some kind of punishment, retribution or whatever is dealt.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Skywatcher on September 14, 2007, 01:08:18 pm
I think another twist on this is the alignment and dogma of the specific deity.  For instance Toran is a compassionate god with an emphasis on forgiveness and restoration.  There is a particular Mistite who has declared that she would watch Clarissa bleed to death before healing her.  That's an understandable RP from the Mistite perspective but when that same Mistite was trapped in the bottom of the rift and needed rescuing and ressurecting a couple of Toranites came to her aid since it is in their dogma to help others in need.  The Toranite perspective would still be one of tension since it would be understood that there would be no recognition of the sacrifice involved and no thanks for the help but would feel pity for the one incapable of understanding the importance of that compassion.  So there is still tension on both sides but different actions are both justified based on the dogma of the deities.

The botttom line is that deity relations and personal relationships are very complex.  In RL there are lots of people who are friends that have divergent beliefs.  So it depends on whether the situation is asking your character to act against your deities dogma or not as to whether a particular action or friendship should be avoided.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 14, 2007, 01:11:11 pm
Quote from: ShiffDrgnhrt
Now whether its BAD RP or not, I'm not gonna say, but each situation should be looked at first before some kind of punishment, retribution or whatever is dealt.

Of course.

No one is saying that this is a cold, hard rule without any flexibility.  What is being said though is that some have taken that flexibility and pushed it far past its normal limits.

As I said above, there can be relationships of whatever kind between followers of unfriendly or enemy deities...the nature of those relationships depend on circumstances, but the context of those relationships should be colored by the deity relationships as much as is appropriate for the characters involved.

In your case, the Berylite would probably have far less of an issue with hanging around Toranites, but the Toranite cleric may see the Berylite as perhaps misguided or whatever.  He may not treat the Berylite as an enemy or even in an unfriendly manner necessarily, but then their respective faiths may always be an on-going issue of friction.

Play smart, people. :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 14, 2007, 01:31:23 pm
Quote from: Skywatcher
I think another twist on this is the alignment and dogma of the specific deity.  For instance Toran is a compassionate god with an emphasis on forgiveness and restoration.  There is a particular Mistite who has declared that she would watch Clarissa bleed to death before healing her.  That's an understandable RP from the Mistite perspective but when that same Mistite was trapped in the bottom of the rift and needed rescuing and ressurecting a couple of Toranites came to her aid since it is in their dogma to help others in need.  The Toranite perspective would still be one of tension since it would be understood that there would be no recognition of the sacrifice involved and no thanks for the help but would feel pity for the one incapable of understanding the importance of that compassion.  So there is still tension on both sides but different actions are both justified based on the dogma of the deities.

The botttom line is that deity relations and personal relationships are very complex.  In RL there are lots of people who are friends that have divergent beliefs.  So it depends on whether the situation is asking your character to act against your deities dogma or not as to whether a particular action or friendship should be avoided.

That's not Toran's only focus, but it's important all the same.  And often parts of the dogma of any deity may come into conflict with themselves, and it's how that conflict is played out that can make things most interesting.  If it's just shrugged off because one inconvenient aspect is simply tossed away or ignored, then that's not really keeping with the way things should be.

And yep, this makes things complex, and people should play it complex and not distill it down to what's simple and easy in all cases....which of course is the "Everyone is my friend" approach.

And as I said before, the degree to which people should take deity relationships and dogmas into account is directly related to the "grade" of their faiths. Champions are pretty much in lock-step, Paladins and Clerics coming next, followed by non-divine followers in order of decreasing responsibility.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Varka on September 14, 2007, 01:43:42 pm
Good answers Dorganath.

I am very pleased with the answers. Especially lonnarins quote from you above.

Another keyword: QUESTS, but then again you have answered it indirectly already.

As to your question
"I might also ask in return, why throw out 5+ RL years of lore and backstory, systems and in-game effort because our characters wish to be best buddies with followers of enemies of their deities?"

My answer is:

Of corse, 5+ RL years of lore and backstory, systems and in-game effort shall not be thrown away. Consider though the idea that a new player looks at Layos webpage. How does that person go by?

How many do you think reads the history book of xxx pages and LORE before submitting first time a character with around 100 words?
How many players actually read the history and law plays after it?
How many players did not cut the disadvantages out to have a more smooth and less conflict based character?
Some of the question can be confined by looking at the submission.

I am merely looking at it the practically way.

Would I have the ideal solution to this debate, heck I would share it right way.


This shall not be read and understood negative. I simply try to write short and sharp. Etc etc.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 14, 2007, 02:01:50 pm
Yeah, my question about throwing out 5+ years of lore was rhetorical, but it showed the other side of the coin.

As for new players...we don't expect them to necessarily read hundreds of pages.  There are some key things though that are assembled and organized relatively clearly in a section for new players that the LORE team has spend a good amount of time making.  There are handy and relevant links to things like what's expected of divine characters, deity relations, etc.

I certainly don't expect everyone to be experts and masters of lore.  And I don't necessarily have all the answers to the RP situations that such things can produce, because they're pretty much infinite in scope.  I do however expect that people make the effort to act as they should, given the responsibilities and expectations of their characters.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Acacea on September 14, 2007, 02:28:19 pm
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I think whenever we come to saying "this is ridiculous!" when looking at a strange seeming deity relationship, one really needs to look at the philosophy and methods of choice when comparing two deities one might normally think went together rather well.

To use the absurd seeming example in the original post, Toran and Prunilla don't get along well. This does not mean that Toran hates the common man and wishes to smite the farmers. He is into uplifting those that can't help themselves and all that, not to mention he no doubt has a hungry belly. However, he is a man of duty, of law, of honor - and Pruni, while baking the most scrumptious pies one can imagine, is underneath the dirt of the fields, CG.

Imagine Toran and Prunilla in a party together. He likely adores her, because she's a halfling who is clearly not a thief, but warm-hearted, generous to those in need, and can seemingly feed a thousand from one loaf of bread. She's like his mother, only a few feet shorter. So they travel together, Pruni fussing over his wounds and making sure everyone is fed, etc etc, until there comes a choice between following the law to aid someone or taking things into one's own hands - Toran sits down to fill out the paperwork and Prunilla, in some very earthy no-nonsense way no doubt, just lifts the latch and says "go on, dear, I'll clean up."

Well sorry Pruni, but no matter how good your pies are, Toran is a man who carries a burden of duty, a man who understands that in order to hope that laws should benefit the people, one must work within the structure of the law to change them. To do otherwise opens the door to chaos, and with chaos comes the inability to protect the people and defend against evil. ...Yes, I'll have one more slice of pie, but no matter how lovable she is, from that moment on, how can Toran be anything but wary of her, knowing that at any conflict she may take things into her own hands and disrupt what he stands for? It is no stance against the common man, but her methods and those of the chosen followers ...

Likewise, from the reverse, Toran seems like "a good boy at heart," but with a tendency to take things too seriously; protection is good when needed, but a hoe is better than a sword and there's always that reminder. As well, his adherence to a man-made structure of law and order when dishing out his morality may make him at times forget the things that counts, or if not forgetting, delay them and make them unobtainable with his inability to shed his mantle of duty for a natural, toes in the earth, free-loving life.

Purely example, but the point is that I can think of plenty of reasons - and as a divine conduit of all that my patron stands for, I need to. I see everything from the perspective of the one who has his hand on me. I may like a follower of another deity, but if his and my god are at odds, there will always be a sadness there - we could be friends, if he were shown the truth. But as we travel, we may at any point come to a place where he may turn his hand against what my faith stands for - do I want to stand behind this person, even should the time come that it would be a blow to my faith? As a divinely influenced character, I might as well lay down my sword right now.

There doesn't have to be a 'yes' or 'no' answer to this. But the question is eternally there, when everything from the link of divinity screams "not your friend! Beware!" should one trust in one's mortal eyes? Do you raise him from the dead with a heavy heart, not knowing when this may one day come back to haunt you? Brothers may stand on opposite ends of the battlefield, it is no different between clerics when it comes time to choose between mortal family and faith. Clerics are ALWAYS choosing.

As well, we use the words 'like' and 'dislike' too often when discussing these - you may LIKE anyone you please. A priestess of an enemy of the faith may be beautiful, charming, and free, and you may fall in love with her and your heart may break for longing, but the fact remains that she is an enemy to the faith a hand of a god that endangers what you stand for in some way, and you must choose. It is unlikely that you can bring her into the fold, because she is a directly divine link to someone who stands against you. Perhaps she was sent to tempt you. Choose. You can't have both. But it's not about 'liking.' You may love her, but you must trust in your god to know what you can't. ...Or not, and throw away the sword and be ever after someone 'fallen' and bear the weight of someone who failed in the cause.

When first objecting to a relationship, make sure that you are not looking at only a single aspect of the god. Lucinda is magic, but magic is tricky and has a side of shadows, of things that one might consider unholy, of illusions that fool the senses and the mind. It doesn't matter that she is benevolent... her love is magic, and she believes that magic helps the world...but can you COUNT on her? Sure, some would say... others, even those that love her, know that her clerics' only love is magic, and some will do anything to prevent someone from endangering the Weave. Other deities do not share these priorities, some just understand that someone needs to do it, and agree with her way of doing so, or have other reasons of being allied. Friends in the heavens, perhaps.  

Prunilla  is the fresh earth of the farm, the celebration of the harvest... but married to Luck and the wind of fate, and half of their life is on the road, truly little better than gypsies at times, when you look to Deliar. How can halflings understand the trials of humanity, anyway? They don't take things seriously enough.

Ilsare is all that is beautiful, the sighs of harp strains and the graceful steps of a dance; she's also an elf, which can put people off right there, and though her followers believe that love and its inspirations are the deepest things one can seek to grasp and celebrate, one who sees them from the outside may see them as flighty and senseless, not seeing beyond gentle teasing to the understanding and empathy beneath. And again... the chaos of passion is a dangerous one.

Beryl is not a purely crafter deity; she loves her gems, the flowers of the underdark really, and one who sees her people from the outside perhaps know only the craft. But she is the mother of the Deep Earth, and the Deep houses all sorts of evils...will someone who looks from outside always see beneath? She is a mother of safety and sanctuary, for she protects her people in one of the most dangerous environments in the world, with the gifts of stealth and trickery as they seek out her shining stones to work in tribute. What swordsman can respect someone for whom "melee" most often means "fled to hide" ?

Some things may even be as simple as Folian being a ruggedly handsome man of the woods, most interesting to Xeen, and him being a bit disgusted that he brought the date that's puking on everyone. Gah. Get off, woman. :P Just saying... look at the broader picture.

My extremely longwinded and with too many examples points is basically just to say - Be biased. More, the more devout you are, no matter how objective you want to look at things, fact is that its been handed down to you that someone follows someone else who endangers your faith. And its not like two soldiers hiding together in a house, unseen by their respective generals...your gods are always watching. Make sure they like what they see, whether or not you know the reasons why...or don't, and risk losing what you are.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Leanthar on September 14, 2007, 02:45:29 pm
Now that was well stated Acacea!!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: EdTheKet on September 14, 2007, 04:28:01 pm
Thanks all for the discussion so far :) I was out on a business trip, and have nothing further to add really.

And nice examples Acacea!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dezza on September 14, 2007, 11:50:09 pm
A general rule I follow is this:

If you have made a conscious choice to decide which god your character will follow then you know well and truly the belief systems of that god and who you do or don't like and it should be RP'ed accordingly.

If you only pay lip service some a god and want to travel with anyone regardless of who they follow then don't put any diety into the diety field or have your diety field blanked.

But...if you have a diety in your diety field and are not RP'ing accordingly then you are an open target for GM mischief and torment! :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 15, 2007, 12:07:46 am
That's like...three general rules there Dezza. ;)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Pseudonym on September 15, 2007, 12:18:20 am
I just read this thread and found myself nodding with lonn's first post and then Weeblie's answer, then Kirbiana's input, then Dorg's responses and then Acacea's great post.

I have always kept in mind something Weeblie said to me maybe a year or so ago in answer to a question I had at the time which seems relevant to the discussion at hand, it's very easy to have RP excuses for your character's behaviour, try however to have RP reasons.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: AeonBlues on September 19, 2007, 08:33:44 pm
For clarification, what about buff spells?

For the meat of what I have to say....

While there might be a more extreme example out there of enemy deity relations, am strongly suspecting this issues has arisen from the friendship between Rose cleric of Toran and Nyeaeana the Kithairien druid.  The reason why I suspect this is because we have had not one but at least a couple of DMs talk to us about this.

This frustrates me, as the DMs come in, have no idea about the character back grounds and history of this friendship, and expect us to RP our characters to some kind of pre written script.  In this case Nye is a protector and follower of the great cycle above the worship of his deity, which is acceptable as written in lore on druids.  Now perhaps for different reasons, Toran and Kithairien are both enemies of Corath.  Nye sees undead as a blaspheme to the great cycle.  Thus these characters work together to fight common enemies.

Another point is that the reason Toran and Kithairien are enemies is because Torn upholds laws, and Kithairien dogma is largely about opposing laws.  Nyeaeana is not CN, he is TN.  So the issue Nye breaking laws doesn't come up, but Drama with a capital "D" has surfaced many times with leadership issues as he will not accept any individual as his leader, who's orders he must follow.

Now I think the RP drama that has and continues to exist should be sufficient for the DMs.  What happens is that DMs work with a limited understanding of the characters stories and RP personalities, and then make large assumptions.

Please realize that if you enforce this policy on Rose, then you are breaking up a significant part of my RP community here on Layo.  To say that she can't heal or raise Nye because of his deity which he values less then his devotion to the great cycle, and his commitment to combat the enemies that him and Rose share seems entirely unreasonable to me.

Now I want to say also that both Dalia and Skywatcher can verify that Nye has stretched the IC RP vs OOC boundary for the protecting the greater good of our Layona community.  When I read Leanthar's post and this thread, I feel that a significant part of the community and friendships that I have developed is being attacked.  I am on the campaign bandwagon that we need to do every thing we can to make every member of this community feel welcome and appreciated.  To say that say that Rose is forbidden to heal Nye is a real big slap in the face to me.  It undermines our characters background.  It undermines the the community and friendships that I have established.

In my opinion, DMs should have all the information on their scales before they start dishing out punishments based on deity relations.  If they make a decision with out weighing all the facts, then they are going to make players not want to play on Layonara, and our community is going to become a bit smaller.

AeonBlues
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Pseudonym on September 19, 2007, 09:08:44 pm
Quote from: AeonBlues
What happens is that DMs work with a limited understanding of the characters stories and RP personalities, and then make large assumptions.


*grins at the irony contained within this sentence*
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 19, 2007, 09:23:22 pm
@AeonBlues:

You know, that's kind of bitter and if I may say so about as one-sided as you are essentially accusing the GMs of being.  Unless I misunderstand, you are saying that all the time, effort, systems, support and meaning behind the relationships between deities doesn't ultimately matter so that people can just RP how they want.  Why not just get rid of the system all together then?  Why not just get rid of the deities?

Yes, those questions were rhetorical.  It's not going to happen.

First let me say something that has clearly been misunderstood:

We are absolutely not attacking anyone for their in-game relationships, their background or anything else.  We are not trying to push anyone out. We are not targeting one specific group.  We are also not saying that anyone is forbidden to associate with anyone else.

Please go back and read that paragraph...then read it again.  I want it to be crystal clear and fully understood.  I'm truly not sure why you would infer that you or anyone else in particular is being targeted or attacked specifically.

This is something that was enforced long before you joined the server.  There have been plenty of people tapped for simply ignoring deity relationships over the years this server has been running.  Your case or anyone else's here is nothing special, nor is it any sort of exception.

I will not comment upon your particular case directly for one simple reason: I only have hearsay and second-hand information upon which to comment. I'll not put myself in a situation where I may be repeating or judging on information that was not accurately or completely relayed to me.  I prefer to only comment on what I've seen, and so I will offer some examples.

Character A is a cleric of Deity A.  Character B is not a member of any clergy, yet is a devout follower of Deity B.  Deity B is considered an enemy by Deity A, and Deity A is considered unfriendly to Deity B. It's entirely possible that Character A and Character B could meet, develop a friendship that does not involve a discussion of their religious beliefs. In the case of Character B, he/she may know that Character A is a cleric of a deity not held in a positive regard by his/her own deity, but being not part of the clergy, Character B can in fact choose to overlook such divine animosity.

For Character A, if the character learned of the religious beliefs of Character B, there should be some sort of inner conflict, perhaps a hesitation in interaction.  There should be some tension, knowing this person supports a god that is an enemy to his/her own.  Perhaps they never discuss it, but if Character A shares his/her deity's blessings (i.e. spells) with Character B, some of those blessings have diminished or non-existent effects than they should. This should be a clue to Character A.  Or if by some chance Character A ends up casting Raise Dead/Resurrection on Character B, Character A will feel a very real penalty.

Am I saying that Character A and Character B cannot travel together? Am I saying Character A cannot cast spells upon Character B?

Absolutely not.

However, what always, always, always, always needs to be taken into account is this:

Character A gets his/her powers from Deity A.  These powers are a gift and a privilege. They are not a right, and as such, they can be taken away at Deity A's will.  While Character A may not care about the relationships between his/her deity and those of other characters, the key issue is that Deity A does care.

A lot.

Deity A will notice if Character A tries to bless an enemy...or heal an enemy...or use Deity A's divine power to return an enemy to life.  

To steer this back into specifics, Toran is the All Watching.  Guess what? ;)

When a divinely empowered character chooses to ignore his or her deity's wishes, and yes, the deity's relationship with other deities, that deity is well within its rights to deny power to said character, in part or in full.  

It's been done before.

It'll be done again.

So what is the point of all this?

The relationships should not be ignored.  Period.  How one chooses to RP that is really up to the individual, but the relationships should never, ever be ignored. However, if a character chooses to do so, then the character should be prepared for his or her deity to take notice and take action.

This does not mean that such character cannot travel together, only that the RP should appropriately reflect the relationships between deities.

Deity relationships are just one of the many dynamics of this world. Try to embrace them and incorporate them rather than finding a way around them.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Pibemanden on September 19, 2007, 09:23:31 pm
AeonBlues, while I understand where you are comming from and what you aree pointing out here we have to consider the RP of it all. Yes there is surely a lot of RP reasons that Rose and Clarissa would like Nye, and I am sure that you are not just getting along like that because of your differences. However one thing remains unanswered, why would Toran care?
Toran is a god not a human being so he doesn't really care about the people worshipping him all that much, surely he is happy to have followers but it isn't like he is on his knees begging people to follow since he has already ascended and he has many other npc followers so he can pretty much do as he pleases. And he doesn't really care if your character falls in love with the most understanding and loving person of an enemy faith, if you are of the faith you better follow his words and not just do as you please yourself.
This might sound really harsh and make it seem like you have no freedom at all as a member of a clergy, but the truth is, it isn't about the freedom you have but the powers your god gives you. Not everyone can just walk up to someone and touch their shoulder saying a few words and the person is healed from all injuries, neither can everyone act as a paladin or even more a champion of his/her god/godess without really being in (full) favor with the god/godess.
Yes I can understand it is hard saying goodbye to IG friendships, but no one says you can't have an OOC friendship plus there are still many other people that you haven't met out in the world of layonara that you might enjoy playing with. And it is even more sad that this hasn't been taken up at a way earlier stage so that the IC bonding would never have happened. But really, this is the way it is supposed to be both seen from a IC and OOC perspective, people have fallen from their gods graces in the past, believe me when I started a whole lot(maybe not all that many but it seemed like a lot) of toranites suddenly feel from grace due to them doing things that went against Torans will(Not really sure if it has happened with other gods but this is what I remember).
One final thing, yes I agree that we could use every single member of the community as it is, however it doesn't change the fact that this server runs with a custom set of rules made by the team and has a huge story that most people aren't aware of even half of, but still we have to work with the things as they are, sure some things might seem like that is just the way they are but the last few days have made me see that it isn't quite so and many things have a very good reason to be as they are. Divine relationships can be hard and yes it is very late that they come into play for some and it might seem harsh if you haven't seen how it used to be before, but really it is all for the betterment of RP on the server and not just in place because someone wants to bash you in the head with a rulebook and say that is just the way it is.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 19, 2007, 09:33:24 pm
Quote from: AeonBlues
In my opinion, DMs should have all the information on their scales before they start dishing out punishments based on deity relations.  If they make a decision with out weighing all the facts, then they are going to make players not want to play on Layonara, and our community is going to become a bit smaller.

I want to respond to this comment specifically.

I have heard far more complaints from people, long- and short-timers, about being dissatisfied and feeling like leaving over people not bothering to properly RP their characters, dogmas, etc. than I have people grumbling about the restrictiveness of the same.

And for what it's worth, GMs discuss a lot of things like this.  We get input from other GM's who have observed the characters to get as full of a picture as possible.  But keep in mind, a huge part of a GM's responsibility is maintaining the integrity of the world.  We'd not be doing our jobs if we ignored such a large part of that integrity.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Rowana on September 19, 2007, 09:38:39 pm
I will reiterate just to be completely clear, we are not telling anyone who they can and cannot group with. We are speaking directly of divinely inspired characters (clerics, paladins and champions) respecting the oath to which they swore. Not just part of it but the whole thing. A ranger of Folian continent crawling with a sorcerer of Corath isn't going to do more then raise some eyebrows. A cleric of Folian running with a cleric of Corath where there is no issue of philosophy, and if they are casting upon each other and proffering their deity's gifts -upon their enemies- of their faith, furthering the goals of their sworn patron's -enemies- is going to inspire some retribution from the gods. Does that not scream heresy? Does that not scream traitor? The gods, while relatively involved in their own dealings will notice these things and they will take care of the problem.  
 
Quote from: AeonBlues
I am on the campaign bandwagon that we need to do every thing we can to make every member of this community feel welcome and appreciated.

I am on the campaign bandwagon that when we approve characters that agree to the oaths of their deity that we should expect them to uphold that oath or that they will bear the consequences there of. Other wise what is the point of the oath in the first place?

~row
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: merlin34baseball on September 19, 2007, 09:49:08 pm
*hammers a huge hide painted in gray and black onto the wall*
Prove the gods exist.

Tyrian

//sorry.. hee...///
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: LynnJuniper on September 19, 2007, 10:05:56 pm
I agree with all of it, and with that, I offer a suggestion:

Along with the OOC oath that is given to players of divine faith (Clerics, Paladins) that they have to explicitly state in their character submission, perhaps an addition to that stating something like:

4) I understand that if at any time I forgo following any and all of my character's oath the team /the god can and will take neccesary action to either put my character on the right path or eradicate him from the faith thereby loosing some and/or all divine power.

I say this because although I do agree , I also, as Pibe said, think its sad that the correcting procedures on some people had to happen so late into their IC relationships with other characters. Yes, they should have been playing the deity relations from the start, but having to change or give up IC connections that in turn the player(s) have grown connected to is always hard. and so perhaps this addition will get people to understand right off the bat: This is serious :)


//Hey Tyrian: Its not that they don't exist, its that they don't care unless you're a brainless loyal dog of a follower, then they dote over you just enough to make their presence known ;)....Rhynn doesn't like the gods either //
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: AeonBlues on September 19, 2007, 10:27:13 pm
Everyone keeps bring out the extreme example of deity X vs. Corath.  Be careful about extreme examples as when rules are based on extreme examples will have extreme effects on lesser examples.

I thank Pibemanden acknowledging that end in game friendships that maybe should not have been formed so strongly in the first place. The fact is if Rose can not cast spell on Nye, then they are going to fail to function as a cohesively in a group.  This is going to tear my character out of a group of friend that he has developed relationships with to the point where these Toranites stop in their tracks when passing a bear, and agree to not chop down trees for the extra wood.  But there is no way Nyeaeana is going to let his friend Rose lose her powers over him.

To say "You can be friends and you can be in a party but if Character A casts spells on character B, then character A is going to have their powers taken away...."  This leaves me thinking, "Yah right"  Basically we can chat in town, but we can't adventure together.

Dorganath, I am reading very clearly that this is not being targeted at any individual.  The problem I have here is this policy is effectively scratching six months of RP development between two characters.  Quite frankly, I am more frustrated by this, then having a character permed.

AeonBlues
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Pibemanden on September 19, 2007, 10:35:11 pm
Quote from: AeonBlues
Everyone keeps bring out the extreme example of deity X vs. Corath.  Be careful about extreme examples as when rules are based on extreme examples will have extreme effects on lesser examples.


Actually every deity X vs. diety Y where Y is an enemy of X is an extreme example, just a heads up so we are on the same page. Surely it might seem like everyone save the dieties who actually like Corath has a reason to hate him, not just a little, but a whole lot. He is CE crazy and pro raising undead armies and such...
But that doesn't mean that any other enemy relationship is lesser compared to that, as soon as some deity enters a enemy relationship with some other diety it is serious, dead serious.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Rowana on September 19, 2007, 10:39:29 pm
It doesn't really matter who the gods are, you can replace the example I made above with Az'atta vs Dorand, Katia vs Vorax, Vorax vs Aragen... The point is, if a cleric of one faith uses the blessings granted to them by their god up on the enemies of that god it is a kick in the teeth, period.  By using the blessings that they grant their supremely devout upon the followers of their enemies, one may question are they indeed as devout they claim to be or a pretender?

And personally I don't see the trouble of keeping up a relationship by speaking while sitting about on a grassy patch somewhere. It is an RP server after all.
~row
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: miltonyorkcastle on September 19, 2007, 10:40:10 pm
Function less cohesively in battle, but what about everything else? There is oh so much more to do. I don't know. I just don't see why her not casting spells on Nye is going to be such a friendship breaker, IC or out. For heaven's sake, Nye doesn't get the benefit of her best spells anyway. I've been with Nye and Rose on trips where she never had to cast a spell on him.

But that aside, I'm going to repeat myself, but here it is:

Clerics and Paladins are supposed to be the HARDEST classes to play.

Don't play one unless you're really willing to make the sacrifices. Sure, they're crazy powerful, but they come with heavy, heavy RP restrictions.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 19, 2007, 10:40:46 pm
Quote from: AeonBlues
Everyone keeps bring out the extreme example of deity X vs. Corath.  Be careful about extreme examples as when rules are based on extreme examples will have extreme effects on lesser examples.

I thank Pibemanden acknowledging that end in game friendships that maybe should not have been formed so strongly in the first place. The fact is if Rose can not cast spell on Nye, then they are going to fail to function as a cohesively in a group.  This is going to tear my character out of a group of friend that he has developed relationships with to the point where these Toranites stop in their tracks when passing a bear, and agree to not chop down trees for the extra wood.  But there is no way Nyeaeana is going to let his friend Rose lose her powers over him.

To say "You can be friends and you can be in a party but if Character A casts spells on character B, then character A is going to have their powers taken away...."  This leaves me thinking, "Yah right"  Basically we can chat in town, but we can't adventure together.

Dorganath, I am reading very clearly that this is not being targeted at any individual.  The problem I have here is this policy is effectively scratching six months of RP development between two characters.  Quite frankly, I am more frustrated by this, then having a character permed.


I think you're still not quite seeing the picture.

With full respect to your 6 months of RP, deity relationships have been around here for over 5 years.  That's RL years, not game years.  Frankly for as frustrated as you might be, we're even more frustrated by both watching people just ignore important aspects of their characters (i.e. requirements of the class) and hearing far too many comments from players who don't understand why some people get away with ignoring these things that have gotten others in trouble in the past.  Are you seriously asking that we as a server just drop all the precedent, work, backstory, lore and effort that has amassed over the last 5 years, plus whatever Leanthar brought in before NWN was even a glimmer in Bioware's eye, simply because a few people don't really care enough to abide by it?

I am 100% certain there is some other way to work out your particular case can be RPed out that works for everyone...something between fully disbanding the group and a loss of powers by the Toranites. If you need suggestions, I'm sure there are those in the community who can provide some constructive input.

Let me turn the issue around on you.  Give me one good reason why Toran would happily and willingly overlook one of his clerics/paladins/champions repeatedly bestowing his divine gifts, especially those of Raise/Resurrection, upon a follower of an enemy diety without so much as a displeasing look.  Why would he sanction that?

Because Toran is nice?

Maybe he is, but he still has his enemies, and that which strengthens his enemies weakens Toran.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Shadowblade225 on September 19, 2007, 10:51:26 pm
I was considering suggesting that myself Lynn. I think it's a good idea.

During the character creation process for any cleric, paladin, or otherwise, there should be some official binding agreement (more so than the current bio requirements).  Something rather simple like the statement above that will lead the player submitting this character to the conclusion that diety relationships must be important and that they will be enforced.  Just because you submit a LG paladin of Toran does not mean you get to be friendly and merry with all. (But then again, I'm so mean that I think Paladins should be a PrC with players starting out as fighters first) :x

I know it's tough to strike that balance between a fun game and a realistic RP setting.  But these rules enhance the setting to make the game more fun. I'm sure you know that as well as anyone.  

Unfortunately, deity relationships just haven't been enforced and the result of which has led to characters seldom RPing these relationships other than maybe a quick comment here or a grumble there.  This has been going on for some time.  Many characters who were able to be a little lax with this have established would-be-forbidden relationships with other characters that unfortunately were allowed to continue and develop.  This makes it harder to all of the sudden turn on that deity enforcement switch.  For this I don't know what to tell you, but it has to be done. I can assure you that this recent crackdown isn't solely based on Rose and Nye.  At least I'm quite sure it's not, but rather on many many players in the past and present.  Sadly, most of these "deity offending" characters/players aren't even aware that they may be on thin ice.  The best advice to everyone that plays a cleric/paladin/etc... is to know your characters dogma and take that as priority number 1.  You wanted to play a paladin/cleric/champion here and you need to agree to the rules to play him/her.

You can still develop friendships both OOC and IC. Yes it will make who you party with more selective and yes that will mean that you won't be able to run around and adventure as much as you can.  But unfortunately that's the case and that's how it should be. There shouldn't be any dispute about that.  If this were not the case, then this server wouldn't be about RP. At least realistic RP.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: AeonBlues on September 19, 2007, 11:06:30 pm
@ miltonyorkcastle: Besides NEP, DW, & SR, there is always good old Heal spells.  It takes Nye like 4 hours in game to make 4 Heal potions.  Think every time Rose casts a Heal, she is saving me an hour of boring tedious chore work.

Quote from: Dorganath

Let me turn the issue around on you.  Give me one good reason why Toran would happily and willingly overlook one of his clerics/paladins/champions repeatedly bestowing his divine gifts, especially those of Raise/Resurrection, upon a follower of an enemy diety without so much as a displeasing look.  Why would he sanction that?

Because Toran is nice?

Maybe he is, but he still has his enemies, and that which strengthens his enemies weakens Toran.


Because they are working together to fight a greater enemy, an enemy that both their deities share.  Because while my character's alignment does not reflect his deities.  While he doesn't respect laws, he doesn't go out of his way to break them either.  Because in the protection of the great cycle, my character does a lot more things that Toran would like then he would have a problem with.

I fully understand the importance of deity relations.  I fully understand that Layo has been around a lot longer then I have been playing on Layo.  As sated though, I have seen many examples where the extreme problem had a serious effect on others.  I also strongly believe that for RP to have real meaning and depth, characters have to freedom to develop relationships where the issues are more complex then a policy that can be cut and pasted onto the back of a box of cracker-jax.  Really great RP comes from the complexity of character development and relations.

AeonBlues
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 19, 2007, 11:25:02 pm
Quote from: AeonBlues
@ miltonyorkcastle: Besides NEP, DW, & SR, there is always good old Heal spells.  It takes Nye like 4 hours in game to make 4 Heal potions.  Think every time Rose casts a Heal, she is saving me an hour of boring tedious chore work.

Do you have any idea how much of that "boring tedious work" characters (including my own) went through stockpiling curing/healing potions and Raise Dead scrolls in preparation for things like the plot Finale about a year ago?  I'll give you a hint: It was a lot, and there was a lot of RP that came along with it.  Yeah it's tedious, but we never designed crafting for mass-production.

I'm sorry, but this doesn't gain sympathy in my mind, and I say that as a player of a character that is a 17th level Alchemist.

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Because they are working together to fight a greater enemy, an enemy that both their deities share.  Because while my character's alignment does not reflect his deities.  While he doesn't respect laws, he doesn't go out of his way to break them either.  Because in the protection of the great cycle, my character does a lot more things that Toran would like then he would have a problem with.

Since when did Toran or Kithairien really care about the Great Cycle?  And pray tell, who is this grave enemy that threatens both Toran and Kithairien...so much so that either god would say, "Hey, let's overlook the whole mutual enemy thing so that these few folks can do battle against it."

It's not hard to see why Toran and Kithairien are enemies.  Their respective dogmas are so far opposed it's not even funny.  Alignment's not even an issue here.  The only real saving point is that your character is not a member of clergy. I have no idea how devout he is, but non-clergy have a greater degree of freedom with these things than non-clergy.  Your character is a druid, yes? As far as I'm concerned he should be a druid first, and a Kithairienite second.  A cleric of any deity does not have the same luxury, as there is no separation between deity and ability.

If GMs saw fit to comment upon your group, then perhaps they were not seeing the divinely-empowered members in proper observance of their deity's wishes.  I honestly don't think that's too much to expect of any player of a divine class, and they did agree to it upon approval.

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I fully understand the importance of deity relations.  I fully understand that Layo has been around a lot longer then I have been playing on Layo.  As sated though, I have seen many examples where the extreme problem had a serious effect on others.  I also strongly believe that for RP to have real meaning and depth, characters have to freedom to develop relationships where the issues are more complex then a policy that can be cut and pasted onto the back of a box of cracker-jax.  Really great RP comes from the complexity of character development and relations.

Yes, it does!  But having said that, the greatness of that relationship would reach its full bloom in the context of those fundamental conflicts between the core beliefs of each character.  If those are being dismissed for the convenience of free association, then someone's doing a disservice to themselves and those they interact with.

Once more: I'm not saying anyone in your group, or any other group, should hate each other or not associate with each other.  But there absolutely should be some tension...some friction...some consideration of the massive opposition between faiths and dogmas.  As I said a few posts back, I cannot say one way or the other if that statement does or does not apply to your group, as I have never directly observed it.  I'm speaking generally, and all your characters' backgrounds aside, if a GM saw fit to comment to you all, then perhaps something was lacking.

Don't look at this as a "Thou shalt not...." kind of decree.  Look at it as more of an opportunity to expand your RP.

Trust me, I've enjoyed adversarial and long-term IG relationships with people who I can remain friends with OOC.  It can be done.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 19, 2007, 11:30:07 pm
Quote from: Shadowblade225
I can assure you that this recent crackdown isn't solely based on Rose and Nye.  At least I'm quite sure it's not, but rather on many many players in the past and present.

100% correct, Shadowblade.  

It is not specific to Rose and Nye or any one particular individual or group. It is something that has sadly gone unenforced for a time. No one should take this as a personal affront to themselves.  We're not out to get any particular player or group of players.  

This is solely about IC and IG consequences for IC and IG actions.  This is not an unreasonable thing, in my opinion.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: twidget658 on September 20, 2007, 12:35:08 am
Points to ponder:
 
 
 If you have been warned multiple times, did you think you could continue to do it without consequence? I know a certain bard that had to change his deity from Aeridin to Vorax because he killed in battle (soloing to be exact, but he dealt with it and was rather glad). A paladin of Toran fell and became a regular fighter. (Character rebuild)
 
 Why would a paladin and a cleric of Toran even deal with the lawlessness of a Kithairien? Why would a follower of Kithairien put up with the crazy law abiding Toranites any?
 
 Toran:
 " Be a shining example of goodness and righteousness by bringing order and safety to the lands. Your word is your bond."
 
 "The holy symbol of the people of Toran is the ankh, which is generally worn around the neck and displayed openly at all times."
 
 Kithairien:
 "Rely not on others for your survival." (Very first sentence of the deity description)
 
 "Law and order other than those of nature restrict; thus, they are not to be followed in any way."
 
 I had my run in with this. My Folianite was getting healed by a follower of Baraeon Ca'Duz. So I know what you are going through, to some extent. Ours was short lived (thankfully, because it would have been harder to bear if it went any longer). So it is not just you, it is a standard that has been enforced for years and will continue to be so.
 
 
 One option is for Nye to start to admire the way of Toran and leave the Kithairien faith and choose a deity that favors some law and some freedoms, a happy medium
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: AeonBlues on September 20, 2007, 12:36:30 am
Quote from: Dorganath
Since when did Toran or Kithairien really care about the Great Cycle?  And pray tell, who is this grave enemy that threatens both Toran and Kithairien...so much so that either god would say, "Hey, let's overlook the whole mutual enemy thing so that these few folks can do battle against it."
 

Corath is the enemy of both Toran and Kithairien.  As a druid, Nye seems himself as a protector of the great cycle and destroyer of undead.  "Returning them to the cycle" as he says.

Quote from: Dorganath
As far as I'm concerned he should be a druid first, and a Kithairienite second.  A cleric of any deity does not have the same luxury, as there is no separation between deity and ability.
 

This is one of the reasons why this IC friendship exists.  I do play my character this way, so a lot of the deity relation conflicts have not existed, while some have and have been played out to a great extent.

Simply put, Nye can't go into the situations this group does with out a cleric backing him up.  Like, if he gets severely wounded, he dies if he changes shape to heal him self.  While yah I am not getting sympathy about the heal potions, a lot of place are built to kill characters that don't have a cleric casting heal spells.

The problem that I am having is not that these characters should have some conflicts. These problems have gone to the extent that Nye has walked away and left the group in the middle of adventures, and at one time he was almost asked not to adventure with them any more because he was fighting so much over leadership and decision making issues.

Now, correct me if I am wrong on this point, but the policy flat out states that any cleric is forbidden to cast any spells on any character that has an enemy deity, on penalty of having their powers taken away.  Now I really want to make sure I understand this correctly, because if this is true, then this policy is going to end not just a friendship that my character has established, but it is also going to end his relationship with the most significant group of adventures he associates with.

AeonBlues
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 01:05:26 am
Quote from: AeonBlues
Now, correct me if I am wrong on this point, but the policy flat out states that any cleric is forbidden to cast any spells on any character that has an enemy deity, on penalty of having their powers taken away.  Now I really want to make sure I understand this correctly, because if this is true, then this policy is going to end not just a friendship that my character has established, but it is also going to end his relationship with the most significant group of adventures he associates with.

AeonBlues

It was never stated that this is a "one strike and you're out" policy.  There are reasons for casting on followers of enemies.  We do not expressly forbid casting on enemies.  Nor do we forbid association.  It's getting late and I find it hard to explain this yet another way.

To put it briefly, there's almost always another way, however.  I fully understand what you're saying, but perhaps the correct solution would have been to cultivate the relationship a little differently from the beginning.  That's me on the outside looking in.  Personally, I don't think a cleric should be regularly casting spells of divine aid upon the enemies of the cleric's deity.  Occasionally to fulfill a specific purpose? sure. As a matter of course, with no more consideration than one would give to opening a door? Not so much.

Again, based only on what has been presented here, the "mutual enemy" of undead could just as easily be seen as a "convenient excuse".  Hey, we're all here to have fun, right?  Just I don't believe that anyone who is playing a divinely empowered character...or perhaps even an deeply pious but non-divine character...should just simply toss out dogma and relationship considerations for the sake of friendship.  I guarantee you that with the possible exception of Az'atta, your respective deities would not see things in the same light.

Play smart. Play your roles. Play your dogma. Play your character.

What you said about IC conflict and leaving the party is great.  Again, I don't know your character, your group or any of the dynamics.  You're taking this all very personally, and it's not meant to be. What we're asking though is that everyone to which this applies take some time and actually think about what it all means, and how everyone can respect the wishes of their deity to the extent that their station within the faith would dictate.  This is no more than has been expected of such characters for as long as I remember, and it is something that the players agree to when they submit a divinely-empowered character.

Is it really that wrong of us to expect that such agreements are honored? Is it really that wrong to expect people to respect the meaning behind all this?

I don't think it is.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Skywatcher on September 20, 2007, 01:48:33 am
Well I think it's great that the GMs and the team are enforcing these issues that are obviously important to them and to L.  Clarissa being one of the recently chastised, is going to have much more flavor as a result.  I also think the way the team is going about correcting this issue gives great RP opportunities.  For divinely inspired characters to have a messenger of their god appear to them and directly relate the displeasure of the one they are devoted to is like a CDQ in itself.  Talk about a life changing moment.  

To comment on something that has been mentioned a few times, that being the long standing relationships that exist due to casualness in deity relations.  I would not say that these events would throw out the past RP but rather these events will provide for just the motivation for the tension that should have been there in the first place.  So Nye hasn't done a lot of Kithlike stuff in Clarissa's and Rose's pressence so they could overlook it but now they know in a very personal way that Toran does care and this will require then to work it out with new insights into the deity they follow.  

I for one am very excited about the way this is being dealt with and while it's not going to be fun to not have any spells or abilities for a while, it will make Clarissa a much more colorful character.

Thanks guys for watching out and keeping the rules the way they are supposed to be.

*Clarissa continues her prayers of repentance in the temple*
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Varka on September 20, 2007, 02:17:11 am
The team has to consider some things for the future. And you probably did it otherwise you would have begun this debate.  

A) You say it is a family friendly server game. Have fun playing etc etc.
B) You ask for people to play according to your rules. Rules that guides some players (clerics, paladins. champs) in a cetain direction.

Depending on how extreme you see A and B they can be quite the opposite.  
(WOW vs. Strict.by.the.book.old.GM.which.reminds.me.of.my.PnP.GM)

How to Balance it? Thats the teams work. And we see something being done now. The Team wants layo to stay exceptional but is will have a price.

Now Aeon is a good example (sorry dude) but what will be the consequence of all this? For everyone that will be hit by this?

Some accepts and continues, some ignore it and continues, some skip layo etc etc

As for A) and B) maybe the team could make the terms of layo more clear on their webpage? How; do not ask me that I am just a fish in the pond. (that question even creates more questions)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 02:39:06 am
Quote from Lore regarding Clerical and Paladin submissions....


Due to the responsibility of a character who is granted divine power to uphold these things submissions for Clerics, Paladins and Champions must contain the following three sections in addition to the standard submission (for examples of individual sections and an example showing how this should all go together see Examples (http://lore.layonara.com/CPCSExamples)):
 Maybe it's just *me* but I think point one covers among other things deity relations and as EVERY clerical and paladin submission MUST have that acknowledgement include to be approved I am failing to see how that isn't clear on what the team wants.....But as I say...that's just  my humble opinion.

Also....If a player isn't exactly sure what that means....Well, it sounds simply but they could ask before submitting a cleric or paladin
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Pseudonym on September 20, 2007, 02:42:29 am
Dorg, can you try to explain what you've said in this thread another way for me please?

[size=-2]I figure Dorg will be waking up in about 5 hours time, just wanted to see if I could make his head explode when he logs on to the forum[/size]
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Skywatcher on September 20, 2007, 02:42:31 am
I agree with respect to new requirements.  I think the rules that exist make it very clear that there can be penalties for not playing a divine character in accordance with the dogma of the deity they represent.  New rules aren't the solution.  Good RP is the best option in my opinion.  :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: LynnJuniper on September 20, 2007, 03:01:30 am
Quote from: DMOE
Maybe it's just *me* but I think point one covers among other things deity relations and as EVERY clerical and paladin submission MUST have that acknowledgement include to be approved I am failing to see how that isn't clear on what the team wants.....But as I say...that's just  my humble opinion.

Also....If a player isn't exactly sure what that means....Well, it sounds simply but they could ask before submitting a cleric or paladin

That's True DMOE, but sadly These things really need to be made crystal clear at creation. I always thought they were but obviously others are either thinking differently or downright ignoring what's not explicitly stated, so sadly it should be explicitly stated.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Weeblie on September 20, 2007, 03:06:11 am
The announcement/notification about the deity relations isn't a new "rule" or something. When I joined the server for 1.5 years ago, my own character was personally having some dreams (I think) of her somewhat slippering faith which promptly put her back on track!

So... what is this about then?

Well, it's simply to say: "Sorry... we know that we have been too inactive in this area, but now seeing that the deity relations are slowly more and more getting grinded down to be insignificant, we want to notify everyone of that the chance for consequences are going to be much higher once again.".

So... what sort of consequences is one talking about? Could be (just throwing some ideas around here):

1. Being talked to by some priest higher ranked than your character.
2. Having some dreams as warnings.
3. Sudden and short blackouts when doing something that the deity might not like. To slowly increase in duration and strength the more such things are done.
4. Temporary stripped of powers.
5. Add whatever you think is suitable here!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Varka on September 20, 2007, 03:07:49 am
by more clear...I mean aahhh bloody hell

Well eaiser to find, make it even more clear how important this issue is for layo. That kind of stuff.

a forth point in the rules:
Warning...bla bla bla if you drink tea with a Corath follower and you are a Toran follower beware there can be consequences.

DMOE: what is obvious to you (as an old player) is not always obvious to others. Why otherwise have this debate?


//clerics, Paladins and champs
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 03:16:22 am
@ Varka

Yep...an additional bit in the Lore section regarding the fact there will be consequences for not playing your deity relations correctly might not be a bad idea.

I don't actually see how they can be made more visible than the Lore page that you should be reading if your submitting that kind of character though

And hey....I was a new player once you know and it was pretty obvious what it meant to me when I was :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: ShiffDrgnhrt on September 20, 2007, 03:32:39 am
Also remember that shiff and Rose (shiff being a sorta Berylite) are friends too...  Who says Beryl and Toran arent mad at them...
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dalila on September 20, 2007, 03:52:10 am
*waves* HI, Maybe I should speak for myself so people know where I am coming from.

I totaly understand where the DM's and other players are coming from.  A cleric, one who is chosen by a god to uphold their standards and rules would frown upon one of them becoming friends with someone who follows an enemy or unfriendly deity.  I am sure there can be very rare cases where a cleric can become friends with a person that is unfriendly to Toran but only through Heavy RP and argument.  There are so many circumstances and such and we can't have a rule for every one of them or we would spend the whole time reading the rules and not playing.  This is an RP world and everything we do should be for RP reasons.  Not what would I do, but what would Rose do.  I know there have been some times when I have maybe not have played the way I should because for me, the person behind the char, I have a hard time being "mean" ,for lack of a better word, to another player.  Toran, I am sure would not want his clerics running around with people who totaly deny or go against everything he stands for.  It is very hard to play a cleric because you have so many rules.  I am still learning them.  Thanks for helping me to understand the rules better.  I understand that you can't have rules for everything and you have to use your judgment.  People make mistakes and we have to learn from them and move on.  Using it to make our RP better.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: akata on September 20, 2007, 07:11:11 am
Quote from: AeonBlues
Corath is the enemy of both Toran and Kithairien.  As a druid, Nye seems himself as a protector of the great cycle and destroyer of undead.  "Returning them to the cycle" as he says.

 

This is one of the reasons why this IC friendship exists.  I do play my character this way, so a lot of the deity relation conflicts have not existed, while some have and have been played out to a great extent.

Simply put, Nye can't go into the situations this group does with out a cleric backing him up.  Like, if he gets severely wounded, he dies if he changes shape to heal him self.  While yah I am not getting sympathy about the heal potions, a lot of place are built to kill characters that don't have a cleric casting heal spells.

The problem that I am having is not that these characters should have some conflicts. These problems have gone to the extent that Nye has walked away and left the group in the middle of adventures, and at one time he was almost asked not to adventure with them any more because he was fighting so much over leadership and decision making issues.


AeonBlues


sorry but it seems to me your looking at this wrong, the conflicts isn't between Nye and Toran but between Rose/Clarissa and Toran, or Kithairien and Nye. Meaning between the cleric and his/hers own deity. This may come off a little blunt but no harm is intended, if Rose, Clarissa and Nye did go and fight undead and Nye happens to fall, why should Toran care to bring him back? Kithairien is still an enemy of Toran, in my eyes it would more make him go.. yes double score a druid of my enemy down while protecting my devoted.

as it have all ready been stated no one has said your not allowed to rp or adventure with a enemy of your god, but if your using powers granted by your deity, then there -can- be a price to pay.


about places build to kill parties without a cleric then that is not true, Layonara is build as a rp server so yes places are build for groups, there are still potions scrolls and item in game that will allow you to travel in a group without a cleric, I play in a timezone that have nearly none cleric's and I agree with you on it being a pain, but it dont mean you cant go!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Varka on September 20, 2007, 07:59:06 am
hhhmmm a short diversity, something that came to my mind but surely everyone will see this as a simply excuse to use.
You have a group:
1Cleric (Pyro)
1Mage (Neutral)
1Bard (Neutral)
5 figther/rouges (vorax, mist, pyro, Katia, Dorand followers)

After a battle the follwoing are dead.
2 figther/rouges (mist, vorax)

Now the allied Cleric can raise the mist follower due to alignment (a guess) but what about the voraxian?
Simply answer would be No.

Consider though now the alignment of the Cleric and the particular situation.
What if the voraxian claiming what he does serve vorax but actually in the eyes of the Cleric he simply (smiling inside of himself) sees the havoc and destruction that our dumb voraxian does? Maybe our cleric has to heal our voraxian now and then but just see the benefits he gets from it. (as long the expenses are low and the profit is high).
Would the Cleric simply leave the voraxian dead, maybe risking dying in UD because without that ekstra hand it will be too tough?

My point is:
A) Of course it is simply to look at the deity relationship. Done.
B) But what about the situation, the motive for the clerics action, Alignment could maybe have an saying etc etc
The right way would be B) in my point of view but A) is so much easier.


//Simply trying to see it from the grey zone instead of simply black and white
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 08:42:17 am
I don't think the team are saying there isn't a grey area....

My Misty cleric was desperate and I mean desperate to raise Dezza's Rofi paladin....

She wanted to do it because she knew it would totally throw him....That it would challenge all he believed in and make him question....In esence it would cause chaos in his life, his emotions and his beliefs.

Had she ever had the chance.....She would have raised him, taken the XP hit BUT also taken any other punishment Mist saw fit to give her for using her divine talents on one of Mist's enemies.

Most importantly though.....She would have only done it ONCE....Once would have been enough to achieve her goals.

I think what the team wishes to ensure doesn't happen is a complete fluffy bunny love fest where clerics constantly heal and raise those enemy or unfriendly with NO thought to how their God/Goddess would react.  Where Paladin's don't comment and allow it to happen or use their divine powers to aid their enemies.

No one is saying you can never aid someone who is enemy or unfriendly....Just that your God/Goddess is ALWAYS watching and don't come crying to us if they react so THINK before you do it and accept that even if you think you do have a good RP reason you may still get 'punished' it just maybe that your punishment is less if your RP reason is good.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Eorendil on September 20, 2007, 08:57:17 am
Ah.. but see, there is conflict there.  And RPd properly I think it might just be okay.. his god may not be terribly please but the choice is there and it is neither habitual nor casual.  There's actually a lot of area for decision making on the part of divine characters so long as its RPd well.

Divinely charged characters don't have to be played like cookie cutter people or paper dolls to hold in reverence the teachings and decisions of their god; to recognize and realize that their actions may have very real consequences.  Its all about choices and as long as the player is willing to accept the consequences that may happen to the character, its good.

Honestly, if a few faithfull didn't falter, fall or convert now and again it'd be a really boring world and there isn't a single rule at creation that says that can't happen.  It just needs RP and if you can, document the process by keeping a character journal.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 09:01:11 am
Oh Muir didn't give a monkey's what Rofi thought....She'd just worked out through repeated RP interaction it would totally rock Tarradon's personal world and she worked on the principle that Mist might understand but even if Mist didn't....It would be worth it! ;)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: LynnJuniper on September 20, 2007, 10:08:22 am
Alright, Though Im totally agreed on this I have a question:

GM Quest. Character Falls in battle. Only cleric that can do the raising has a god that is the enemy of the god of the char that fell.

What happens?

I only ask because I'd hate to see a character miss a quest for falling in battle when there's someone there that can raise them
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 10:21:02 am
It's up to the cleric, really. There's not really any difference in situation between a quest and regular RP time.

The GM might make some allowance or accommodation based on the situation, but all the conflict and consideration the cleric would normally have in that situation would still apply.

Now, if that person had to sit out the rest of the quest as a result, well I suppose that's a possibility, but that would also mean people were RPing their characters properly.

Then again, who says that dead person would have to miss the rest of the quest?  Who's to say some adversary of the group, perhaps one they don't know about, won't happen by and raise that poor adventurer and turn him/her against the group?...

"You call them your friends, but you fell and they abandoned you.  I saw it, I did...."


And so forth.

There's always options! ;)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 10:22:10 am
Can't speak for the team obviously, but I wouldn't break my character's deity relations to raise simply due to a quest without a very, very good IC incentive.

What happens on a quest if there is no cleric and a character falls?  Actions have consequences and while it's not fun to lie dead on a quest....I've done it due to lack of a cleric.

Why should it be different because a cleric is there?  Having a cleric is not an automatic raise and nor should the party expect it to be.  My cleric won't raise if the person has no soul stone, working on the principle that the person obviously doesn't wish to be raised.....That's just one example but there could be many non deity relation reasons a cleric may decide not to raise on a quest.

There have been cases in the past of clerics losing more XP than they actually gained for questing because the party expected them to raise enemies simply to keep the quest moving forward.

Doesn't matter if your the same religion, allied, non-religious or enemy...You should never expect a raise off a cleric just because they are on a quest with you.

Of course...any cleric refusing to raise for non-deity related reasons has to deal with the consequences of their actions from the party ;)

Although...equally so....remember if you don't like the party cleric and RP that, which is fine....that has consequences too!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Honora on September 20, 2007, 10:47:46 am
As far as roleplay goes, keep in mind that some of the best literature and scripting is built off of the interaction of opposites.  As Eor said, I hope this discussion not end up in a spate of "you are a Toranite, I therefore hate you" and "you are a Voraxian, die in my sight" mentalities.

Dogma has it's place, but I feel that exceptions do as well when the history and roleplay back it up.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 11:00:59 am
Seconded!

Ironically, even though Muir wanted to mess with Dezza's Rofi paladin she actually has an element of respect for his more recent Rofi fighter which has come about from some very interesting RP.

They often have interesting and in depth conversations regarding their deity's without insulting etc each other and while I'm not sure I remember this 100% correctly I'm pretty sure Muir has healed her with bandages before.  Maybe one day Muir might use her blessings as granted by Mist on Sasha.....maybe she won't...RP will dictate and consequences will be faced if necessary.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Kirbiana on September 20, 2007, 11:34:32 am
I would also like to second Honora's hope that this reminder to RP deity relationships does not result in a spate of "OMG I hate you!" interactions. If role play is our sine qua non, then there is one question every player should be asking themselves above all others: "Is it in character for my PC to do this?" My goody-two-shoes cleric might ignore someone whose god was unfriendly or (more likely) squeak and go running away in panic when she saw them, but she would never walk up and say something mean to them. And that's not because her player dislikes saying mean things (although she does) but because it would be an out of character action, one that just wouldn't seem right if my cleric were a fictional character in a real fantasy story.
 
 I've wondered often why so many (especially new) players, seem to default to making unprovoked snarky comments to unfriendly PC's and I think I might know the answer. The problem, I think, is that non-traditional ways of being unfriendly often involve a LACK of dialog, which can then be interpreted by others as a LACK of role play rather than as non-traditional role play. And it might not occur to players new to a heavy role play server to make use of their emotes instead. For example:
 
 A Toranite paladin walks into a Fort Vehl bar, wearing his divine symbol openly on his armor. A neutral good follower of Beryl, relaxing with an ale after a hard day of polishing topaz, is sitting at a table. Instead of saying, "Well, look what kind of garbage just walked in." our Berylite *sighs and pointedly shields his eyes from the harsh glare of the armor*
 
 That second reaction, to me, opens up a much wider field for creativity in response from the paladin, ranging all the way from wry acceptance of his 'state cop' reputation and humorous banter with one of 'the usual suspects' to the standard unfriendly shouting match and on to any kinds of surprising reactions (self-pity, bitterness at the world's ingratitude of his sacrifices, etc, etc). I try to remember that in Layonara, creativity in role play is what we're all about, and that means opening a space for others to be creative as well as being creative yourself.
 
 That's just my goody-two-cents worth of opinion, of course!
 
 :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Xirion on September 20, 2007, 11:38:54 am
I read this thread from the beginning and have to say I understand the need of diety relations to be RPd the only question I have is wouldnt a Toranite cleric even expected to raise the Kith druid?

I dont know much about the dogmas, oath and vows of other Gods, but isnt it so that noone in need should ever be turned away? From my point of view is the fallen druid  really in need...
I thought aswell that a Toranite would even somehow -have- to help (e.g.) a follower of Mist if he is asked to. Ofcourse just if the deeds and aims are nothing what would be "bad" or aggainst Toran or his beliefes or the law.

This is how I understood Toran atleast, feel  free to correct me if that is wrong.

>Xirion>
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 11:57:21 am
Firstly...No cleric is held by an oath like a paladin so can refuse any aid they wish as long as they follow the tenets of their god/goddess.

In  Toran's case his main tenets as listed on Lore are...

Protect the realms and rout injustice wherever you find it. Raise up the weak and empower them, so that they might see the strength of Toran. Seek out the servants of evil, most notably those who follow Corath and Pyrtechon, and bring them to justice.Be a shining example of goodness and righteousness by bringing order and safety to the lands. Your word is your bond.


I've not found anywhere it says that those in need can't be turned away...at least relating to Toran...If I've simply missed it, please, please point it out to me :)

As for the having to help a follower of Mist if they asked...Is this what you are referring to from the Paladin code?

Aid those that you can, and neither ask nor expect reward. Your valor and honor will bring glory to Toran's name.

If it is...I think the 'Aid those you can' is the important bit....Your god knows who his enemies are and is not going to put one of his paladins in a position of having to aid them to keep their code.  Saying to aid those you can is not the same as saying you can not refuse another aid....Not by a long shot.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Hellblazer on September 20, 2007, 12:09:17 pm
Hum I might be flamed a bit here but what the heck. RPing the dogma is as much important as rping the alignment. IF LG character is asked by someone to help even his enemy (obviously can't go against one moral which is not always tied into someone religion) Then in my sence he is bound by it.

Lawful Good Characters:These are the basic instincts of a character. Somthing that even if his faith would prohibit him to do, he would have a hard time to follow that tenant if he does it at all. There for, If a misty were to ask a toranite for help and it didn't went against the other basic instincts he has,He would be bound to do it.

Now what does this has to do with RP dogmas and deity relation. It's how a character would basically relate himself to his religion. It might cause iner conflict, of his personal beliefs vs his dogma, It might even bring him to stray a little from time to time of his dogma. IF the dogma is one of LG and you have a character that is NG or CG, he might not always go with his dogma. On the other hand, if both are LG and his dogma would clearly state to refuse to help someone.. that would clearly go against the most basic instinct of the character who is LG.

you could almost apply the Asimov rules here.

btw DMoe I love that signature link
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Xirion on September 20, 2007, 12:25:56 pm
DMOE
"Firstly...No cleric is held by an oath like a paladin so can refuse any aid they wish as long as they follow the tenets of their god/goddess"
Ofcourse not. But a cleric is addicted to the god aswell and follows his dogma and shares its views.


DMOE
"I've not found anywhere it says that those in need can't be turned away"

from Lore: Toran
The temples of Toran are known the lands over as houses of safety and refuge. None in need shall ever be turned away.

Okay it is about the temples, not the clerics or the paladins. But I think it shows it anyway.

Ofcourse a Toranite would not have to help follower of Corath to burn down some houses :D

No serioulsy, if he is asked by a follower of Mist or Kith to help him to return the bards necklace (regiran from hlint I think) wich is a "good deed". Can he refuse, or should he refuse?
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Varka on September 20, 2007, 12:33:33 pm
You have deity enemies. True
But as I see it (grey zone) it depends on the event, the intensions and the task.

Example:
*Plen, Rhiz, Kobal, Kat, Aca, Angela, Daeron, Storold and 20 others sit around the table.*
Hey tonight we gonna kill Bloodstone! *one shouts*
Cheers, hurray *everyone shouts*
Aye, lads and lass. Ter da dragon da foight *Kobal says and then the shouts stops*
To Roferien? You gotta be kidding me *Angela says* what about the Sea Queen?
*The cheers, laugther and joys have suddenly turned into a debate about the Gods. In the end everyone leaves and 2 years later Bloodstone rules the world. Hurray Hurray*

Now what can we learn of this? Everything is not black and white because then you could write a book about when every rules counts and not.

Everything is general guidelines. I am sure everyone could make an example where you had to break a certain rule.
Every player and DM will have his or her ideas about this but still it is good to talk about. I simply hope that players being confronted with DM will solve this in a good way together. That does actually count both ways.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: lonnarin on September 20, 2007, 12:38:04 pm
Of course, nobody's saying here that one is prohibitted from casting upon or raising an enemy faither.  I think if I were a cleric of a vile deity, I might raise a paladin just to confuse the heck out of his beliefs about my religion, and to drive in the point that he "owes me one".  When he thanked me, I would say "don't thank me, thank Corath!" to him, and goad him into shamefulness.  If he was like "thank Corath?  sorry, I cannot travel with a follower of him..."  I would heckle him for it... "oh, I see. The goodly paladin cannot heal somebody of his own faith where we Corathites can... shows who the REAL good and selfless religion is!  Come see the just and kind Toranite turn his back on the wicked cultist who saved his very life!"  It's not THAT you raise or cast upon an enemy faithfu that is of issuel, but HOW you do it.  A sizeable donation to the church of Corath might make a priest of said religion look past the toranitness of a client... especially if if could potentially cost the paladin when Toran noticed him tithing to Corath.  I think Corath on the other hand would get a big kick out of this, so long as you don't start making a habit of raising the paladin or did it for pure charity's sake.  When you remove the knife from an enemy's back, twist it a little first.  It's your right as a healer.

I can also see persons of unfriendly religions pairing together and even becomming good friends despite what their gods think.  On the subject of common enemies and common goals, I remember my friends Father Logan and Quantum Windword getting along very well despite Lucinda and Toran being at odds, namely due to both of them having an obsession with undead hunting.  You would never see them in church together, but they had a firm respect for what each of them were about on a personal level.  Surely Quantum would chide Logan on the whole "I wish your goddess would quit granting all this wicked necromancy" and arguing faith dynamics, but they would raise eachother in a pinch if given the opportunity.  The same went for Praylor and Earl, Toranite and Prunillite respectively.  Sure their gods disliked eachother, but they shared such a common hatred of undead and duty to keep their forces in line, that the who "my god doesn't like your god" factor paled in comparison.  It also helped that in this case, Earl wasn't a very devout follower and had some leeway in the matter, he was mostly a Prunillite because he was a farmer and raised that way.  Sometimes allegience to a god has more to do with cultural or familial factors than that of direct faith for non-divine characters.  As Honora said, "Dogma has it's place, but I feel that exceptions do as well when the history and roleplay back it up."

So if a GM "catches" you and suggests that you probably shouldn't be grouping together, calmly explain to them why your characters are friends despite the faith.  Point out that there are many such alliances, especially at the top of the adventurer food-chain were such holy people as Kobal and Plenarius, two very devout and goodly people opposed to unnatural evil, manage to have an amiable and courteous relationship with some sickly, morally reprehensable guy like Ozy.  When we were holding monthly meetings on what to do about Bloodstone, I never saw the legion of goodly heroes stoning Rufus Coldfinger when he sat down at the heroes table, nor the high priestess of Islare Reventage refuse to join the fight against Bloodstone because there were Voraxians in the party.  Just because Storold is nice and courteous to people in town who aren't in his religion, doesn't make him any less devout of a practitioner.  Indeed, some clerics like Aeridenites would go out of their way to turn the other cheek to a wounded pyrtechite, in hopes that they might soften his heart and ease his suffering.  

Just because characters theoretically *shouldn't* get along doesn't mean that they can and do so on a consistant basis.  The world history was built upon exceptions like those of the World Leaders, follow their example. A black-wizard Corathite, dwarven Rofirienite, elven Priestess of Love, Two Katians and a Wheezing heretical demon-elf?  Best Friends Forever!

When you Adventure for a living, oddball combinations like these are bound to come up now and again.  The thing is to have fun with and to roleplay the differences of faith.  These are rough guidelines, not hard shackles and a cage.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 12:38:38 pm
Quote from: Xirion

DMOE
"I've not found anywhere it says that those in need can't be turned away"

from Lore: Toran
The temples of Toran are known the lands over as houses of safety and refuge. None in need shall ever be turned away.

Okay it is about the temples, not the clerics or the paladins. But I think it shows it anyway.

Ofcourse a Toranite would not have to help follower of Corath to burn down some houses :D

No serioulsy, if he is asked by a follower of Mist or Kith to help him to return the bards necklace (regiran from hlint I think) wich is a "good deed". Can he refuse, or should he refuse?

It shows that the Temple won't turn someone away....That is very different from raising an enemy of your god after a fight.

He can refuse if he knows they are followers of Mist or Corath and feels it would be aiding an enemy.

Should he depends on the paladin....I'd certainly not be expecting him to use his divine powers on random followers of enemy gods he ran into on the road if he knows they worship an enemy god/goddess.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Xirion on September 20, 2007, 12:53:13 pm
@Lonn: yes, followrs of Corath have the luxury. They can think "let this weak Toranite Paladin bleed in the dirt why should I care?" or the way you pointed out *envy* ;)

@DMOE: Yes ofcourse it is about the temple but isnt a cleric also a part of it?
And I didnt want to take it word by word, just think the sentence shows as some others how Toran and the religion works. I just dont think it fits to Toran to let some one behind lying in his own blood... For sure he would also say "thank toran" and even try to take this chance to convince him that Toran a god of goodness and help is a far better choice ;)

I also understand that there are rules but that they cant suit to every situation. Just want to know if I am completely wrong

EDIT: I caught myself in a theological discussion about a fictional religion in an MMORPG fantasyworld...I am starting to get worrie about myself! oO
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Gulnyr on September 20, 2007, 12:55:47 pm
Quote from: Hellblazer
Always helps others.


I think it is a mistake to assume that the list provided is an absolute measure of the Lawful Good alignment, and that each point must be included and maintained at all times.  But, for the sake of the argument, let's say that all Lawful Good characters do indeed "always help others."  Notice the S at the end for future reference.

Because of the nature and requirements of alignment and faith, neither can be taken separately as both are important parts of highly devout characters.  Just as alignment affects actions and perceptions, so too does faith.  

Remember that S?  Always helps otherS.  Imagine that Terrence Toranite and Mollie Misty are traveling together.  Terrence is LG and a Cleric.  Mollie embraces the chaotic nature of her faith and isn't beyond causing a little havoc wherever she goes.  Mollie falls in battle.  Terrence, since we are saying that all LG characters always help others, must make a decision that will help others.  Not just an other, but otherS.  So, since Mollie causes trouble for all sorts of people, it would be wrong of him to go against Toran's wishes for order and safety by resurrecting this enemy of order, and he will help many others by not resurrecting her.  Not raising a fallen follower of an enemy god would satisfy both the alignment and the faith in this example.

Maybe "always helps others" is a key feature of being Lawful Good, but sometimes the best way to help is not always the most direct and obvious option.

Just to cover a side-track:  Let's say Mollie Misty isn't really all that devout and doesn't cause havoc everywhere she goes.  That changes the scenario IC, but Mollie still has Mist in her deity field, which means she's devout enough to count.  If Patricia Player didn't want to have to worry about all the deity relation stuff and didn't mean for Mollie to be so devout, she shouldn't have put anything in the deity field.  Characters who aren't all that religious should probably have blank deity fields.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Weeblie on September 20, 2007, 01:00:14 pm
I would say that Bloodstone was a quite different exception than from most other things, and not 100% suitable as an example.

The reason is simply that Blood himself threatened ALL the deities. To group together was not just a benefit "for your enemy" but rather a benefit for your own deity also! All the deities would of course have prefered to handle the matter by themselves (well... even in the case of friendly deities... it's best to handle it oneself, right?)... but that was obviously not a working option!

I found most of the posts rather confusing, as no where does it state that a cleric/paladin/champion cannot act outside the wish of his/her deity. There are no magical bonds holding him to his oath and the dogma, nor is there any geas spell cast on them.

One doesn't have to put the deity first... in fact, if contradicting things are comming up, especially if your character is of another alignment than his/her god or goddess, one has to prioritize either!

An exagerrated example could be that an innocent child is on an altar in front of you. And you, in the position of a Toranite paladin has to save the world (typical Toranite thing to do!). The only (and I really mean the only) way is to slay the child. What does he do?

Reading that funny table, one see the line "Never harm an innocent." and draws the conclusion... woah... the world was just annihilated!

What is the most reasonable thing to believe that the paladin did? Yes, I think you are drawing the same conclusion as me, he would have killed the child. Very reluctantely to say at least, but still the outcome.

So... what does this mean?

It means that one has to decide what's most important to one's character.

The same thing goes for choices to "act good" or "act in the wishes of one's deity". What's more important for your character? Answer the first and accept the guilty feeling not to trust one's deity completely, and perhaps the deity will react to that. The later path, on the other hand, is a clear proof on: "My god is right, right and absolutely right. I shall not have any doubts about him. He is always with me, and with just my beliefs, I can walk through fire without harm being brought on me..."

It's an active choice all divine characters have to make. It's an active choice they -should- make. It's the true cost of being favored: To put your trust completely in the care of someone you cannot even (or rather, unlikely) ever see or meet.

Besides... has anyone actually considered the option of having one's character fall from grace? And not just temporary, but permanently. That is, after all, a viable option... for... say... if a Aeridinite priest suddenly finds himself deep in love with a Corathite priestess, deciding that relation is more important than his link with his god, hence by his own decision throws his holy amulet away. A good and nice path for RP, I would say, and not "DOOM!!! WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITHOUT SPELLS?!?!? I CAN AS WELL GO AND PERM MYSELF NOW!!!".

Edit: I also have to add the perhaps part about one's god reacting. It is just a "perhaps". If your Aeridinite is having a nice cup of tea with the neat Corathite farmer/cleric next doors, I would not likely see that being punished. Civil? Fine! Maybe even good friends? Why not! Lending a hand when he needs some help with pulling out the weed in his garden? Okay! Aiding him on his quest to find the (un)holy relic of Corath? Well... I'm sure you can guess what will happen then!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 01:00:33 pm
Well yep, you could in fact apply some rather Asimovian rules to this issue as one way of perceiving it. It's a fairly good example because Asimov wrote about different weights or "potentials" given to each of his Three Laws.  

In case some of you are not familiar, in Isaac Asimov's "I, Robot", he established the Three Laws of Robotics. To quote:
[LIST=1]
In the book, there were a variety of odd and extreme scenarios where these laws came into conflict with each other.  Basically, the robots found themselves in situations of crisis, where the driving force of one law came up against a conflict caused by another.  One of my favorites from a humor standpoint was one where a robot was found running back and forth between two points, as the First Law and the Third law battled for dominance.  In this case, rescuing a human who would die eventually would cause irreparable harm to the robot itself.

Overall, the gist was that the robot's application of the Three Laws in these scenarios could bring about conflict.  If the situations were not too extreme and the robot was properly balanced, then all was well. Otherwise, it could produce conflicts that could not be resolved easily.  People could work out a solution that might have negative consequences, but robots could not.

Anyway, steering this back around to Layonara and deities, while the idea behind the Three Laws might find some purchase here, in execution, people are still more complex than robots.

Now, onto the question of alignment.  It's a good question but let's look at things a bit more.

First off, alignments are a guide, but surely not immutable laws carved in stone.

Second, clerics are required to be within one step of their deity in terms of alignment.  This right there pretty much implies that there is a great deal of  overlap between the morals and personal philosophy of a deity and his/her clerics.  Champions are required to be the exact alignment of their deity....again, this implies a nearly complete overlap.

Alignment is not something of which our characters are aware, nor are the deities.  We as players are but they are not.  Additionally, there can still be a grand variance between two characters of the exact same alignment.  Our characters are not robots, afterall.

Now, the key point in all of this thread is that those who receive the divine power of a deity are expected to observe and respect that. Clerics are not some divinely-powered spellcasters who also give a nod of respect to one particular deity.  Quite the opposite.  They have made a choice (or some would say they answered a "call") to serve a deity as his/her representative in the mortal realm.  They serve the deity above all other considerations. The reward for this is a set of powers granted by the deity.

So if we factor in alignment and borrow again from Asimov, divinely-empowered characters need to:
[LIST=1]
Note that I'm not calling these things "laws"....they're a guide.  Unlike Asimov's robots, our characters are living, sentient beings capable of dealing with these conflicts and coming to a solution, even if one of them is broken temporarily.  As people, they can also foresee the possible consequences and factor those into their actions before making a decision.

To take your narrow question above regarding Lawful Good and "Always helps others", here's a couple ways a LG Toranite Cleric to handle a situation where, for example, a priest of an enemy deity was laying dying (or perhaps already dead).
[LIST=1]
I'm sure there are other ways, but these are just a few options that spring to mind most immediately.

Now, for non-divine characters, the guidelines above blur greatly.  In fact, we could put all three on about the same level and take out the "except when in conflict" clauses.  In such cases I personally might put alignment above deity for all but the most devout cases in terms of importance.  Again, these will cause internal conflicts and there may be consequences in  the form of alignment hits or other IC and IG sorts of things.

I hope that answers the question(s) you had, Hellblazer.  

The point is, actions beget consequences.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 01:00:45 pm
Quote from: Xirion

@DMOE: Yes ofcourse it is about the temple but isnt a cleric also a part of it?
And I didnt want to take it word by word, just think the sentence shows as some others how Toran and the religion works. I just dont think it fits to Toran to let some one behind lying in his own blood... For sure he would also say "thank toran" and even try to take this chance to convince him that Toran a god of goodness and help is a far better choice ;)

I also understand that there are rules but that they cant suit to every situation. Just want to know if I am completely wrong


Well...why would Toran keep granting one of his clerics his divine powers if they continually use them on his enemies and no, IMHO Toran isn't that nice and I have alot of IC experience with him.

The whole point is why would Toran give a rat's behind about a fallen enemy?  He isn't Aerdin or Az'atta after all
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Gulnyr on September 20, 2007, 01:01:20 pm
Quote from: Xirion
@Lonn: yes, followrs of Corath have the luxury. They can think "let this weak Toranite Paladin bleed in the dirt why should I care?" or the way you pointed out *envy*

Can't this be turned around?  The Good Clerics can leave fallen followers of an enemy god and consider it better overall for the world, or raise them as a show of mercy and compassion to, perhaps, give them a sense of the power and benefit of the Cleric's (and his god's) point of view.

It may sound silly to expect, say, a Corathite to convert to Toran, but I can't see a Paladin really thinking Corathites aren't so bad just because one raised him.  Why would the Paladin not suspect something?  It sounds silly both ways when you say it like that.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Skywatcher on September 20, 2007, 01:07:46 pm
Another aspect that has been hinted at but not directly discussed is that of evangelism.  Clerics should be attempting to convert others away from enemy deities.  So it not only depends on the situation but the particular relations of the other follower and their diety.  A cleric might use their gifts to draw someone from another diety.  In Nye's case for instance, he has seen that Rose is willing to sacrifce to help others and has seen a Kitharien priest who didn't care much about the great cycle.  These interactions might lead Nye to question his following of Kitharien if it causes tension with those he considers friends.  I always thought Aeridin was a better fit for Nye anyway :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Rowana on September 20, 2007, 01:08:58 pm
Quote from: Varka
You have deity enemies. True
But as I see it (grey zone) it depends on the event, the intensions and the task.

Example:
*Plen, Rhiz, Kobal, Kat, Aca, Angela, Daeron, Storold and 20 others sit around the table.*
Hey tonight we gonna kill Bloodstone! *one shouts*
Cheers, hurray *everyone shouts*
Aye, lads and lass. Ter da dragon da foight *Kobal says and then the shouts stops*
To Roferien? You gotta be kidding me *Angela says* what about the Sea Queen?
*The cheers, laugther and joys have suddenly turned into a debate about the Gods. In the end everyone leaves and 2 years later Bloodstone rules the world. Hurray Hurray*

Now what can we learn of this? Everything is not black and white because then you could write a book about when every rules counts and not.

Everything is general guidelines. I am sure everyone could make an example where you had to break a certain rule.
Every player and DM will have his or her ideas about this but still it is good to talk about. I simply hope that players being confronted with DM will solve this in a good way together. That does actually count both ways.

That's not a fair assessment Varka, I am afraid. Because you can dissolve into descent over dogma and deity and still achieve a common goal. Because obviously Bloodstone is gone (or so we hope anyway!) and if you don't think there was deity related debate and dispute your missing at least half the story already.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Varka on September 20, 2007, 01:23:24 pm
I always go for the extreme in my examples.
Further I mostly use irony in my examples.

You can consider why and look into other posts i have done

Further look at the core of the post not the surface.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Honora on September 20, 2007, 01:23:48 pm
Quote from: lonnarin
Just because characters theoretically *shouldn't* get along doesn't mean that they can and do so on a consistant basis.

Of course, just because they SHOULD is no reason why they have to :).  Let's not forget two followers of the same god who cannot stand a) their personalities or b) the individual way that the other choose to worship.

Let's have some in-church strife too! :D
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: lonnarin on September 20, 2007, 01:24:22 pm
Quote from: Gulnyr
Can't this be turned around?  The Good Clerics can leave fallen followers of an enemy god and consider it better overall for the world, or raise them as a show of mercy and compassion to, perhaps, give them a sense of the power and benefit of the Cleric's (and his god's) point of view.

It may sound silly to expect, say, a Corathite to convert to Toran, but I can't see a Paladin really thinking Corathites aren't so bad just because one raised him.  Why would the Paladin not suspect something?  It sounds silly both ways when you say it like that.



Part 1) Certainly that can be the case!  I seriously doubt even Jesus would have raised John Wayne Gasey the clown-faced child-killer or Hitler out of love.  If evil dies, for the most part, let it die... still though, there is some merit in redemption.  If you don't offer redemption, then you're not very good since all you're doing is enforcing divinity at the end of a sword.  Ultimately, the outcome of the act would merit its worth.  If you raised a corathite and he kept on killing, then your god would be upset with you, if the wicked man instead turned to good, you god would be happy.  Gods are fickle like that, the only care about the results of their followers' actions, not the motive usually.

Part 2) The very fact that there is one exception to his hardline view could very well give him pause the next time he faced a Corathite.  If he was told his entire life that Corathites were evil and without mercy and one showed him mercy, even just to toy with him, it could be a tremendous blow to his faith.  If Toran lied about this, he would wonder, what else is Toran wrong about?  Shaking up concrete theological values does much to assail faith.  Point to the sections of the bible where the loving followers of god commit mass genocide in Deuteronomy and slay women and children of the tribes they conquered in Judges, and many christians will uncomfortably try to change the subject.  Same goes for the example of the kindly corathite... Toranites would quickly change the subject and grow uncomfortable at the mention of it.  Heck, just ask Lucindites why their goddess made babies with the dreaded Corath and the topic changes rather quickly.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Rowana on September 20, 2007, 01:27:35 pm
Quote from: Varka
I always go for the extreme in my examples.
Further I mostly use irony in my examples.

You can consider why and look into other posts i have done

Further look at the core of the post not the surface.

With the use of Bloodstone and -those- specific characters as an example there then you didn't make your point very well, I am afraid. For they did exactly the thing you suggest they could not. They found a way to follow the tenants of their faith and still fell the beast that would destroy Layonara.

Have there been quests where deity conflict has mired the "win" and considered a failure? Sure. But we aren't here to 'win' we are here to RP. If we were here to 'win' then hey, we'd be one of -those- other hack and slash servers.

~row
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 01:29:01 pm
Quote from: lonnarin
Part 1) Certainly that can be the case!  I seriously doubt even Jesus would have raised John Wayne Gasey the clown-faced child-killer or Hitler out of love.  If evil dies, for the most part, let it die... still though, there is some merit in redemption.  If you don't offer redemption, then you're not very good since all you're doing is enforcing divinity at the end of a sword.  Ultimately, the outcome of the act would merit its worth.  If you raised a corathite and he kept on killing, then your god would be upset with you, if the wicked man instead turned to good, you god would be happy.  Gods are fickle like that, the only care about the results of their followers' actions, not the motive usually.

Which is exactly why Az'atta would likely accept the aid of her enemies, if redemption were the goal, as all are worthy of such in her eyes.  She's about the only one though.

Quote
Heck, just ask Lucindites why their goddess made babies with the dreaded Corath and the topic changes rather quickly.

A vile, vicious rumor, I assure you!  O.o

Incidentally this gave rise to the rumor that they're enemies now because Corath skipped out on child support payments.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: lonnarin on September 20, 2007, 01:32:36 pm
Quote from: Honora
Of course, just because they SHOULD is no reason why they have to :).  Let's not forget two followers of the same god who cannot stand a) their personalities or b) the individual way that the other choose to worship.

Let's have some in-church strife too! :D


VERY good point there Honora.  Even when people worship the same god, doesn't mean that they necessarily like eachother.  All we have listed are the gods themselves, but only in a few spots of the dogma have we even mentioned the sects within the faiths.  Lucinda is the prime example with defenders of the weave, shapers, guardians, etc.. they have about 3 major branches/orders which operate and think very differently from one another.  Grandites are horribly prone to infighting since they have trouble deciding between old anscestor worship, purely grand worshipping ways, or even older shamanic rituals of their culture.  No doubt for all of the religions there are numerous sub-sects and "cults" within them which can come to blows with one another.  Just look at Sunnis vs. Shiites in the real world... same allah, still warring.  Catholics and Protestants?  Just believing in a specific God and what he taught hardly guaruntees peaceable cohesion between all of the faithful.  In the asbence of opposed gods to war upon, there spring up opposition within the same faith over smaller differences of logos and practice.  

I bet most Voraxians debate theology via fist-fight!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Falonthas on September 20, 2007, 02:08:10 pm
one thing i noticed in this  that hasnt yet been mentioned unless i overlooked it

Druids are not devout of any god

sure we put one during creation and it may shape our background as to what life was before being taken down the oaks path

gods are part of the whole
therfore with Nye being neutral and even though he is a shifter, he still serves the oak

druids are not bound by deity affiliation

again if i read it wrong please let me know

you can be friends with toranites or corathites or all those in between
why because druids are beyond such small viewpoints
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: DMOE on September 20, 2007, 02:12:11 pm
Psst....I don't think anyone was questioning that....More the Clerics and paladins :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Shadowblade225 on September 20, 2007, 02:15:22 pm
Quote from: Eorendil
Honestly, if a few faithfull didn't falter, fall or convert now and again it'd be a really boring world and there isn't a single rule at creation that says that can't happen.  It just needs RP and if you can, document the process by keeping a character journal.


Fun Fact Time:

I've seen many Toranite characters come and go through the years.  Some came and stayed for a year or more.  Some were very vocal both in game and on the forums (OOC and IC).  Sadly, many of these characters (who have long left) were forgotten.  Some were fairly high level, but yet still forgotten.

Now...here's the fun part....

The majority of Toranite paladins that I've seen through out the years have fallen.  Not one or two.  Not three or four.  The majority...most....many...huge percentage.  I can't count more than two paladins in my own experience that have not fallen. Neither of these players play here anymore (or I haven't seen them in some time). Oh..wait...I can count another two who seldom play. But ya...still the majority have gotten in trouble.  The last year or so was less restricted than it had been in some time.  Less restricted means fewer paladins got in to trouble.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 02:18:54 pm
@Falonthas: What DMOE said... :)

And I did say that Nye needs to be a druid first, Kithairienite second.

Granted you'd have to sift through my huge volume of responses, but it's there.

Besides, I also said way more times that this entire issue wasn't specific to Nye, Rose or any other individual or group. No one is being singled out.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Rowana on September 20, 2007, 02:20:12 pm
If you put a deity in your deity field you are considered devout enough for it to matter, druid or fighter. If a fighter does something to besmirch the good dogma of a deity, the deity will notice but not necessarily punish as they are more a sheep in the fold rather then a shepherd. If a druid, more a shepherd (especially when considering the nature gods) besmirches the faith of the god by abusing their tenants and wishes, there will be actions taken. However it may not be as serious as if a cleric has done such a thing because as you point out, the druid does not rely upon the deity. Yes druids will abandon their chosen deity if it comes in conflict with the land, but who you get to cast your blessings upon doesn't really come in conflict with the land.

As an OOC mechanism, if you are not devout enough to your deity for deity to matter you might not want to put it in your deity field. However as an IC mechanism, Kith, Folian, Katia whom ever, is still going to look upon you as a follower if you claim to be and if you betray them, they aren't going to be happy about it.
~row
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Falonthas on September 20, 2007, 02:22:53 pm
ok i figured i had missed it in the mass
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: lonnarin on September 20, 2007, 03:02:29 pm
Quote from: Rowana
If a druid, more a shepherd (especially when considering the nature gods) besmirches the faith of the god by abusing their tenants and wishes, there will be actions taken.
~row


How can a nature god who is not the oak themselves take action against a non-clergy member?  The most they can do is not grant spells that they're already not granting, and we here at layo have had the concept etched into our skulls that gods do not take active part in the lives of mortal.  No mortal will ever speak to, meet or dance with their god, so it stands to reason that any wrath beyond refusal of spells is forbidden as well.  It was my understanding that other than the granting or denial of spells, gods are forbidden or unable or unwilling to take action in the mortal realm.

I think in the case of Nyea and Rose, perhaps Rose's diety might be upset with her, and perhaps Nyea's with him... but only Rose has to worry. Kitharian just has to sit there and cry about it for lack of better option, since Nyea's spells do not come from him.  He has to worry about being a good druid, not a good Kitharian.

I admit that it is a strange and unique task, seperating the druid from the nature priest.  In many ways, hardcore druids are more like katia than many Katians; I doubt she worshipped any god before her ascension.  It's an odd choice, to follow in the footsteps of you god, or to follow their word.  So who makes the better Katian, the katian priest who follows her word, or the environmentalist druid who does as she did in life?  whew... that's a strange bit of zen there...
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Weeblie on September 20, 2007, 03:18:19 pm
The gods have a little bit more wriggle room than just granting or deny spells, but that's not really significant here. For a non-divine follower, they would very unlikely do anything at all, unless we are talking about greater offenses, like an Aeridinite suddenly becomming a mass-murderer or something!

Then, the said deity could simply use the tools he has... and guess what that is?

Yes! Clerics, paladins and champions! :)

But that... eh... that's of course a danger one always has... regardless of whether you are a follower of the deity or not... Being one though, is naturally lowering the threshold level when the deity will act against you... which would still remain very high!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Rowana on September 20, 2007, 03:38:20 pm
Quote from: lonnarin
How can a nature god who is not the oak themselves take action against a non-clergy member?  The most they can do is not grant spells that they're already not granting,   No mortal will ever speak to, meet or dance with their god, so it stands to reason that any wrath beyond refusal of spells is forbidden as well.  It was my understanding that other than the granting or denial of spells, gods are forbidden or unable or unwilling to take action in the mortal realm.

The gods -choose- to remain inactive in the general day to day lives of mortals. Do not mistake that complacency as inability. As Weebs said, they have many tools, their favorite being the well behaved followers.

If you accept a god in to your life enough to devote your ways to their concepts you invite consequence when your actions do not represent that. Period. If you don't want the hassle, don't invite them in. It is simply more immediate in the long term for those who use the blessings of the gods. Those who do not use the blessings of the gods can find themselves in a pickle just as easily, just that they have more wiggle room.

So your statement of "The most they can do is not grant spells that they're already not granting,  No mortal will ever speak to, meet or dance with their god, so it stands to reason that any wrath beyond refusal of spells is forbidden as well," is severely incorrect. In fact some mortals have met a god(s).

~row
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Tanman on September 20, 2007, 03:39:26 pm
Or Weebs, Kith could start throwing around his divine trees. :-)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Hellblazer on September 20, 2007, 04:46:28 pm
Quote from: lonnarin
P  If you raised a corathite and he kept on killing, then your god would be upset with you, if the wicked man instead turned to good, you god would be happy.

that always depend on the fact that if your god bases that person actions on his own will or do it at your expense. I don't usually mix RL religions to game but since it has already been done.

If you found a man bleeding to death in the street and you brought him to the hospital and the next week he goes out and kills 10 people. Does God hold that against you? no. Why? because you did what he wanted and it is to help your fellow man. And plus you didn't know who he was.

The same way in game. Unless you use divine relation you do not know if the person laying dead in front of you is from a different deity alignment from you and even then you do not know which deity.

 Even then, if you take a few factors into account of things your character may not know like, he has this deity, was raised to follow it, but does not anymore because he woke up (but due to time constraint the player either did not right a cdt for it explaining how he came to not follow him, or the admin did not have time to switch it yet).  Or if even with that deity he is not in fact a good man bent on helping other. Remember what i wrote before. Depending on your alignment you're personal view of you deity might defer and cause inner struggle, happens all the time even in RL.

Since you don't know that, would your deity really frown on your for being generous and compassionate, when you have no clue who this person is? Now if you knew that character (and I mean character vs character knew each other) and knew what kind of person he was, that would be a different story.

And I know there was something about the character alignment not mattering that much on the views to his faith or something like that in the past that was brought up. But truly, if the alignment is the indication of how a character would react to situations, it is also how he would personally view his own faith. If the alignment is not the basis on the character reactions and views, then take them out. But thats an other debate.

I'm saying this because of this. Alignments are more in the line of the person moral. You chose to follow a faith, you do not chose your morals. People can change faith easily but to change the very fabric of their essence it's almost impossible at the very least a life time undertaking.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Acacea on September 20, 2007, 05:08:00 pm
Gods act through their clerics, for the most part, yeah. Druids are quite capable of being devout, using different deities as their focus for the powers they draw from nature. They won't be revoked by the god, no, however if they stray so far from the faith, then they should simply remove the deity from the deity field. A cleric wouldn't read him as an ally anymore because he's not, plain and simple. Calling oneself a Folian follower doesn't make you aligned with his goals and dogma, so if you're no longer doing either, you should remove what allows you to receive his blessings and so on, and continue to call yourself a Folian worshipper...without the name in the deity field.

Regarding nature priests vs druids, personally I think its just a silly attachment we have to classes and their predefined meanings, even if they don't make much sense. Why should people like Katia and Lucinda and Kith and so on have predefined cleric packages such as exist in NWN? Katia's clerics should be basically druids in abilities, should they not? Is she not nature? Kith definitely gets the shaft in a big way when people expect his shepherds to have the 'cleric' class. Lucinda's clerics suddenly don't know jack about arcane magic and 90% of them try to hide full plate under their robes because they have the 'cleric' class package, and since when do they care THAT much about turning undead?

Is a pure cleric of Folian more connected to his god than a devout ranger or mix of the two? Yeah right, that cleric ranges like an elephant, about as well as the Kith one hunts. It's just a silly attachment to what people see as the meaning behind the word 'cleric,' even when the fact of the matter is that no matter how much smart players can bend a class to fit a new definition, it is not suitable in many cases. Sometimes I think the worlds where all divine magic comes from gods, period, have it easier, because then suddenly you can actually have a ranger or druid of a deity that serves nature to a better degree than a 'cleric' class, but is still devout and not pounded out by the less suited cleric. In the current mindset of many people, a pure ranger of Folian means jack. A pure druid of Katia is nothing compared to a cleric. Any pure arcane caster is zilch to Lucinda, though they may hope to serve a mundane position related to the church. Does that make much sense, in the grand scheme of things?

As for gods 'choosing' to remain inactive, I'm not sure I agree with the wording as that seems to imply that they can at any time fix all the problems but just decide not too because they're fickle and useless, which is exactly why people argue against them OOC in the first place. It was my understanding that it was more of a case of being either so difficult to meddle directly as to require their links to the world via clerics, or leave them vulnerable to other gods doing the same and causing all sorts of mess, similar to when they dragons stopped killing each other and decided to politely create toy soldiers (read: races of the world) to fight instead. Kind of them, I know. I sort of prefer the 'hard to meddle directly' over the 'we agreed to use pawns instead' because the latter makes me anti-pantheon, but hey.

Regarding Hellblazer's post, we are mostly going on the assumption that you of course know who the person is and who they worship. Being anonymous would make almost the whole of this discussion moot.

To be a bit more on topic, sort of, not really, I think this whole thread has diverged a bit and fallen once more back into "this god should do this" and "what would god do in this specific scenario," which is beside the point to me. These are deities, no matter what our OOC beliefs, they're gods, and OOC we shouldn't be trying to rationalize them on a personal level, because they don't exist for most people on that personal level. For those that snort and wave their cynic flag and make all the spiteful anti-pantheon talk OOC, whatever man, I'm the opposite of religious in real life but this is in character, it's fiction, they exist and serve a function and role. IC say all you want, but out of character people should be rationalizing why a deity IS serving his role and living up to his alignment and dogma, against greater appearances, not rationalizing the opposite. We know things about them, we know what they are supposed to be, so rather than dragging the concept through the mud and down to a mundane, mortal level, think of ways to exalt it instead. No one is perfect and sometimes DMs and players are honestly going to do a crappy job of representing a god on a greater level than mortal, because most of us are indeed mortal, yes? Don't ruin the concept because of that. Just fix it. I tend to blame clerics before gods to avoid dragging it through the mud ;)

The general point of the whole deity thing is just to remind people that as clerics or paladins, your deity is your life and the source of all you are and what has shaped you, and to keep that in mind at all times and act accordingly. Some people really do forget and put deity several slots down on the list, regardless of what is claimed. Mincing each individual thing and giving examples of stuff is just sort of beside the point, you know? Believe me, I can argue just about everything, from either side, until Layonara's Armageddon, and give a hundred examples of why it should not be so in x case or should be in y, but that's just not the main purpose of the reminder.

(Edit- PS: The Lucinda/Corath/Xeen thing IS a vicious rumor, which everyone of all three agrees on! :P)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: AeonBlues on September 20, 2007, 05:09:02 pm
*grumbles*

I admit I overstated things in my first post, and I apologize for that.  We acknowledge that this is not about Rose, Nyeaeana, and Clarissa, though they are severely effected by this policy.  Being told that my character is not going to be able to function as a team with the group that he most often adventures with is not an easy lump for me to swallow.

That being said, as it is required for druids to have a patron deity, I will review my options for finding my character a new faith for political reasons.  My first impression was that Nyeaeana would not want to change faiths for an OOC reason, but it definitely is an IC development, and druids are political by nature :D

And I will get over this ;)

By the way, this thread has made for some very interesting reading.

AeonBlues
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 05:17:14 pm
Quote from: AeonBlues
That being said, as it is required for druids to have a patron deity, I will review my options for finding my character a new faith for political reasons.

This is not true.

You might want to check out:

[lore]Druid Information[/lore]

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The belief system of spiritual harmony and direct connection with nature predisposes druids to be less attached to the gods than many other Layonarans. You will of course find druids among the ranks of worshipers of Katia, Aeridin (http://lore.layonara.com/Aeridin), Shindaleria (http://lore.layonara.com/Shindaleria), Illsare (http://lore.layonara.com/Illsare) and many others. But a druid is less likely to be a fervent follower than a cleric (http://lore.layonara.com/cleric) whose powers derive directly from the blessings of her or his deity. Katia, for example, personifies nature, and as such can give a druid a very powerful and tangible point of will focus. But a druid’s strength is not gifted from Katia herself. A common druidic philosophy is that the gods themselves are a product of a confluence of natural forces. They evolved. It is considered blasphemous by many and in some places gives druids a hated outsider status, but to them the gods themselves emerged from nature and are in many ways subordinated to its fundamental flows and connections. Thus, druids are not always worshipers of Katia as is commonly thought, and even those that are may view worship in an entirely different light than others.
Also from here:
[lore]Character Submission[/lore]

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If your character follows a deity, it must be from the Layonara pantheon (see Deities of Layonara (http://lore.layonara.com/Deities%20of%20Layonara).) Clerics and Paladins must have a deity. No other class is required to have a deity with the exception of the Divine/Unholy Champion Prestige Classes.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Acacea on September 20, 2007, 05:17:55 pm
It is not at all required for druids to have a patron deity. Many serve only nature and see the gods as simply a part of the whole. Others do not, and serve nature within the scope of dogma, instead. It depends solely on the druid, as they are a wildly diverse bunch with a common purpose and place.

(Edit: Dorg is super fast. Too slow.)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Hellblazer on September 20, 2007, 05:23:09 pm
Dorg Sorry mate but the both links you gave are not working. (at least for me)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: EdTheKet on September 20, 2007, 05:26:59 pm
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GM Quest. Character Falls in battle. Only cleric that can do the raising has a god that is the enemy of the god of the char that fell.

What happens?

I only ask because I'd hate to see a character miss a quest for falling in battle when there's someone there that can raise them

This happened a few times on my quests. There have been players who have been dead for the entire quest as there were no friendly/allied clerics around willing to raise them. And guess what, they did not mind at all, they stayed logged in for the entire thing, lying dead :)

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That being said, as it is required for druids to have a patron deity,
Druids do not need a patron deity.

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That being said, as it is required for druids to have a patron deity,
Political reasons?
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Acacea on September 20, 2007, 05:28:15 pm
LORE: Character Submission (http://lore.layonara.com/Character%20Submission)
LORE: Druid Information (http://lore.layonara.com/Druid%20Information)

Regarding being the only cleric on a TPK quest, sucks. Happens. Some may have exceptions, depending on circumstances. I can think of a few exceptions that have occurred that I give a big thumbs up to for the roleplay. It would be pretty rare, though.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 05:28:25 pm
Bah!  Updated the links.  Sorry! :(
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Hellblazer on September 20, 2007, 05:32:45 pm
Eh not your fault mate, it happens. :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: AeonBlues on September 20, 2007, 05:54:00 pm
Oh brother.  That would imply that all this hassle is completely my fault.  Did lore on this change?  I seem to have the image, "All divine casters must have a patron deity" wood burned on my forehead.  Though I have always RP'd my character that the great cycle comes before deities.

AeonBlues
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Acacea on September 20, 2007, 05:56:50 pm
Druids have never required a deity... that's always been the case :) I think it's that way in a lot of other places, though. Hence the comment I made about it in the longer one about it - "...Sometimes I think the worlds where all divine magic comes from gods, period, have it easier, because then suddenly you can actually have a ranger or druid of a deity that serves nature to a better degree than a 'cleric' class, but is still devout and not pounded out by the less suited cleric..." hehe.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 06:11:35 pm
Yeah, there's some confusion due to the mechanics that essentially say that druidic magic is "divine" in nature. This is to separate it from "arcane" magic, which is the magic of sorcerers, wizards and bards.  Rangers have the same problem, as their magic is considered "divine" as well.

However, only the magic and powers of Clerics, Paladins and Champions is a direct gift from a specific god.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Falonthas on September 20, 2007, 06:23:46 pm
does this mean that if we remove any diety from the field it wont effect anything from a mechanics standpoint??
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Acacea on September 20, 2007, 06:28:54 pm
I'm not sure I understand the question. If you remove a deity from the deity field, you will be considered as neutral to all in terms of cleric spells and the penalties on Raise Dead and Resurrection, if that is what you are asking.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Falonthas on September 20, 2007, 06:30:14 pm
yes i know this from a layo standpoint but will not having a diety in field cause nwn issues about valid chars  or other such mechanical aspects
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Acacea on September 20, 2007, 06:39:52 pm
No...not at all. You can have clerics without deities, too. Just not in Layo, from an RP standpoint. Some worlds require deities for all divine magic, however, even going so far as to code systems preventing spells from being cast without x deity, and so forth, or penalties/bonuses for deity favored equipment, etc.

(In worlds like these, there are lists of deities that have druids or rangers. For example, Katia would have druids, but not Toran. Thus you could not be a Toranite druid, only one that actually provided druidic connections. Same with rangers. There's also a lot more gods covering different and overlapping spectrums to choose from in those worlds, though. Usually FR, which has a ton for different regions and stuff. Here, deities to druids are often just lip service like any other sunday worshipper, completely different from the cleric interpretation.)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Pseudonym on September 20, 2007, 07:16:23 pm
Dorg, can you reword your earlier posts as to how the deity relationships work for me.

Cheers, Pseudo.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 07:28:15 pm
Quote from: Pseudonym
Dorg, can you reword your earlier posts as to how the deity relationships work for me.

Cheers, Pseudo.

Nice try! :p
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Tanman on September 20, 2007, 08:08:44 pm
Quote from: Hellblazer
Since you don't know that, would your deity really frown on your for being generous and compassionate, when you have no clue who this person is?
I think the diety would frown if their "divine powers" (in the case of clerics and paladins, especially when  it came to those people who  worship an enemy deity.

It seems that you assume that all deities are compassionate and kind. That is hardly the case. I can hardly imagine Corath/Pyrecteron playing pleasantries to their clerics when they show compassion to the fallen, especially when they are an worship an enemy deity.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Hellblazer on September 20, 2007, 09:06:21 pm
No I'm basing this on the fact that the cleric would act out of ignorance. In all the time that I plaid here, only 3 times have I seen anyone use deity relation, I was one of those.

I do believe that my statement did ask, would your god hold it against the person who is committing these action or at your expenses. Obviously if you're character is following an evil align god, the god would hold it against the cleric even if the cleric did not know. On the other side of the spectrum there would be a good chance a good align god wouldn't hold it against his cleric, if he saw that his cleric truly acted out of compassion.

That is my assumption really and this could greatly vary from one GM to an other.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Pseudonym on September 20, 2007, 09:19:31 pm
Divine relation is what? A level 0 spell? I would have thought a cleric, champion or whomever is the focus of this debate would/should absolutely make liberal usage of this spell. I don't think I have ever been on an adventure with DMOE's Muireann where she hasn't just either cast this at the very start on someone new to her or asked people point blank who their deity was.
Having said that, I'm not sure if the spell works on a raiseable corpse. A question for someone more mechanics savvy that I. If it didn't, maybe an Aeridinte would 'risk it' and raise them but I wouldn't imagine too many clerics of the other God/desses might feel such an obligation.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: lonnarin on September 20, 2007, 09:23:21 pm
Quote from: Pseudonym

Having said that, I'm not sure if the spell works on a raiseable corpse. A question for someone more mechanics savvy that I.


Ask your local temple shop about the Eye of the Soul Stone for that. ;)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Honora on September 20, 2007, 09:23:51 pm
It CANNOT be emphasized enough then, over and over, that the person on the receiving end of the Divine Relations DOES NOT KNOW IT HAS BEEN CAST.  Corba went through this with Jaren, back in the day - she cast it on him and he never let her forget it, reminding her in character that it was "rude".  And this was a GM!

Divine Relations can't be seen by the recipient.  Just keep reminding yourself of that...and use it!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Tanman on September 20, 2007, 09:25:19 pm
Quote from: Hellblazer

I do believe that my statement did ask, would your god hold it against the person who is committing these action or at your expenses.
My answer did say it would regardless.
Quote from: Hellblazer

On the other side of the spectrum there would be a good chance a good align god wouldn't hold it against his cleric, if he saw that his cleric truly acted out of compassion.
My thought on this is that it still would. The cleric is *still* using divine powers that he granted them on people that worshipped enemy dieties. Regardless of whether its a compassionate thing or not. I don't think its dependent on that at all.

Quote from: Hellblazer
Obviously if you're character is following an evil align god, the god would hold it against the cleric even if the cleric did not know.
Not true at all. Just because the diety is 'good' alignment, doesn';t mean that they won't resent that action. Look at Toran.

The question is what punishment would the diety do? Toran denied divine powers to those that acted otherwise whereas Corath might do something sinister in addition to that...like a few years of pain amongst other things. :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Gulnyr on September 20, 2007, 09:26:18 pm
I think you're putting too much thought into this compassionate ignoramus.  I don't think any compassionate god is going to ding a Cleric for being accidentally compassionate to an enemy occasionally, but if it becomes a habit, I'm sure the god would take action to stop that sort of behavior until the Cleric wised up.  Gods can't have direct representatives running around being utterly oblivious, after all.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Honora on September 20, 2007, 09:30:06 pm
Everyone put on your necklaces with What Would (insert first initial of your diety here) Do?  

What Would Toran Do?
What Would Mist Do?
What Would Xeen Do?

WW(diety initial)D - an acronym to live by!
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Dorganath on September 20, 2007, 09:39:33 pm
Quote from: Gulnyr
I think you're putting too much thought into this compassionate ignoramus.  I don't think any compassionate god is going to ding a Cleric for being accidentally compassionate to an enemy occasionally, but if it becomes a habit, I'm sure the god would take action to stop that sort of behavior until the Cleric wised up.  Gods can't have direct representatives running around being utterly oblivious, after all.

(quoted for emphasis)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Hellblazer on September 20, 2007, 10:24:39 pm
Quote from: Pseudonym
Divine relation is what? A level 0 spell? I would have thought a cleric, champion or whomever is the focus of this debate would/should absolutely make liberal usage of this spell. I don't think I have ever been on an adventure with DMOE's Muireann where she hasn't just either cast this at the very start on someone new to her or asked people point blank who their deity was.
Having said that, I'm not sure if the spell works on a raiseable corpse. A question for someone more mechanics savvy that I. If it didn't, maybe an Aeridinte would 'risk it' and raise them but I wouldn't imagine too many clerics of the other God/desses might feel such an obligation.

Yep thats the second on my list beside me I saw use that spell.

Quote from: Honora
It CANNOT be emphasized enough then, over and over, that the person on the receiving end of the Divine Relations DOES NOT KNOW IT HAS BEEN CAST. Corba went through this with Jaren, back in the day - she cast it on him and he never let her forget it, reminding her in character that it was "rude". And this was a GM!

Divine Relations can't be seen by the recipient.  Just keep reminding yourself of that...and use it!

And yes, once it was explained to me properly a while back, I totally agree with you here.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Acacea on September 20, 2007, 10:35:39 pm
Seriously, the whole point of the issue that brought about this thread (the reminder) was to serve as a reminder to anyone who knew perfectly well the relationships but were inclined to shelve deity concerns in order to be happy casting blessing buddies. Like I said ... we can all come up with hundreds of examples to quibble over, but they weren't really the point.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Aragon on September 20, 2007, 11:02:27 pm
@ Lonnarin's first and original post that started this massive thread.

Lonnarin I am absolutely offended that you would use the word "good" and Chanda in the same sentence or even refer to Chanda being a good anything.  ;)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Falonthas on September 21, 2007, 09:06:46 am
@Aragon thats true cause she even tasted bad when i bit her
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Angelic on September 22, 2007, 12:05:08 am
(Gender references all masculine for sake of brevity)

I thought the xp loss that a priest of a particular deity incurred when raising the follower of his God's enemy was the manifestation of his God's brow furrowing over the whole incident?

Not so?
It is only part thereof?

Perhaps a sliding scale of xp hurt could be scripted. First time you raise the follower of an unfriendly deity, your God smacks you 5,000xp. The next time it is 10,000xp. The time after, 20,000xp and so on and so forth.
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Hellblazer on September 22, 2007, 02:07:35 am
The loss of xp is based on the alignment of the character you raise

An allied deity or same deity as the cleric suffers no loss. As to all others, the cleric would suffer a loss. That is if he character has a soul stone or not with 2 exception.

see this

LORE: Raise Dead (http://lore.layonara.com/Raise%20Dead)

*note to self* don't post when you have trouble keeping your eyes open :p
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Post by: lonnarin on September 22, 2007, 03:25:50 am
I wish druids had that old 2nd edition spell reincarnate...  You raise them and their death effects for the next 10 minutes is that they have to be some random animal.  Not as crippling as being dead and bindstoned, but still righteously humiliating.
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Post by: Weeblie on September 22, 2007, 03:55:45 am
As I see it, the XP penalty from Raise Dead/Ressurection does not come from your god directly (i.e. your god doesn't smite you). Instead, it's the sacrifice parts of your own soul to bring back another. Like... if a huge amount of power had to be channeled somewhere, and if there are no presence of any soulstone, you have to channel that power through yourself, which puts your own soul into strain.

And why does the XP become worse the worse the relation between the deities are? Well...

Perhaps, if you are trying to ressurect a friendly deity, your own god will "help you a little bit more" compared to when you are ressurecting a unfriendly one! :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Angelic on September 22, 2007, 05:34:38 am
Yes, that makes sense. However, to my way of thinking, implicit in a deity's ability to reduce the strain of their priest raising someone by divine interaction would also be their ability to increase said strain.

My thought was if the 'cost' of a deity's displeasure was hard coded to take effect here at this point it would reduce the subjectivity of any GM-driven divine retribution - thus removing the ever present potential for a player to cry foul as to the treatment they received for their RP suspect actions from one GM versus the treatment another player received from another GM for a perceived similar RP suspect action?

Quote from: Weeblie
As I see it, the XP penalty from Raise Dead/Ressurection does not come from your god directly (i.e. your god doesn't smite you). Instead, it's the sacrifice parts of your own soul to bring back another. Like... if a huge amount of power had to be channeled somewhere, and if there are no presence of any soulstone, you have to channel that power through yourself, which puts your own soul into strain.

And why does the XP become worse the worse the relation between the deities are? Well...

Perhaps, if you are trying to ressurect a friendly deity, your own god will "help you a little bit more" compared to when you are ressurecting a unfriendly one! :)
Title: Re: How to RP Diety Relationships w/ topsy-turvy Like vs dislike
Post by: Weeblie on September 22, 2007, 06:02:59 am
It can of course be scripted in the spells so... lets say... it's no longer possible to cast friendly spells on followers of enemy deities, or that there is a certain % chance for something to happen if it's done.

Actually, that would be rather easy to do. But then, one can ask oneself, why is it not done?

Well, the answer is very simple: Scripts cannot detect the RP situation by itself.

Different deities handle punishments in different ways, and on the basis of what they consider out of line and what's not isn't the same.

And lastly, we have that the punishments from the deities are mostly in RP nature, and not shown in any game mechanic sense (except for if you get your deity field wiped, that is). For example, being talked to by another cleric of the same faith, or suddenly having some nightmares about what was done... :)

The choice of whether to have scripted penalties or not is like the choice of whether having scripted quests or DM run ones! The first being 110% fair while the later is surely more fun, even though at times they can be perceived as unfair (like one DM allows X but not Y and another DM allows the opposite)...
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Post by: Angelic on September 22, 2007, 06:54:41 am
I wouldn't draw the same parallel myself. Wouldn't it be great if GMs could adjudicate on everything? Sure would. Unfortunately, not realistic given scarce resources. Isn't the raise dead penalty system as it exists now scripted? My thought was a variation on what already exists rather than a completely new concept.

Quote from: Weeblie

The choice of whether to have scripted penalties or not is like the choice of whether having scripted quests or DM run ones! The first being 110% fair while the later is surely more fun, even though at times they can be perceived as unfair (like one DM allows X but not Y and another DM allows the opposite)...
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Post by: Dorganath on September 22, 2007, 08:11:07 am
Like Weeblie mentions, scripts can't take RP into account.

Also, we don't generally allow a character to lose levels due to XP loss from death, spell requirements and spell effects, so eventually, that increasing XP penalty will get to a point where further increases do not matter.

The XP penalty gets their attention, that's for sure.  What's far more important to us though is the RP of the situation. There are ways to aid the enemies of one's deity without ever casting a single spell or doing anything else of a mechanical nature.  Raising a dead enemy is one thing out of many that will catch our attention.  This GM adjudication of such things is not a new concept.  It's something we've done for a good long time, only we have been overly lax  in recent times.
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Post by: miltonyorkcastle on September 22, 2007, 05:57:23 pm
We've been overly lax in this one area of enforcement, but not due to laziness on the part of the team. Rather, it's that we've been distracted (and therefore busy) with a myriad of other issues (Please don't make me list them all. I'll be here all day.). Also, the number of GMs on the team shrunk, and has only recently been filled back in.

Just wanted to point that out. As the saying goes, "We're only human." There's only so much we can do at one time.