The problem is two fold. People not Rp to the drow properly.
I don't think that's necessarily true. A CN character, all other things being equal (that is, if s/he is unlikely to get arrested for murder for doing so), would be just as likely to kill someone for an insult as to ignore it. If they decide to take it out on the person, a beating may suffice, or they may simply want them dead. It would take a pretty severe insult, but even so, I think it's a reasonable approach.LN, not so much, nor TN - both lean more towards good than evil, and it's usually not lawful to kill someone for words, or even for threats, if they're not backed up. If a Lawful Neutral character saw an opponent as a threat to the law or to his life and it was within his jurisdiction, however... *slice*.