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General Discussion / RE: Rest in peace

« on: September 01, 2005, 03:37:00 PM »

My wife's brother killed himself.  When something like this happens to someone close to you, you will feel guilty.  You didn't notice, you did something to contribute, didn't stop him, were not a goiod enough friend to do something.

All of this is normal - but a lot of people do kill themselves - you may learn of a lot more suicides close to home now - and it is definately not your fault in any way.

Suicide is also never a solution (except in extremis) to life's problems.

I feel sorry for you going through exams, leaving senior school, no doubt packed full of normal teenage angst and having a good frioend do this, but at least you are still alive and able to learn from his tragic mistake.

Good luck.

Richard (40 years old - played D&D since 1978 and English though living in the US)