One could point out a "repectable town" might view female characters half dressed as harlots and treat them as such -- where is the social pressure to keep their clothes on? There isn't any because this is a FANTASY game.
If you want to parade you female character around in near her birthday suit then that is your perogative. I don't see the city miltia arresting them for public or pubic indecency.
Ever work around molten glass ? How about an honest to goodness forge? Smell tanning solution? How about try and set a stone in a piece of jewelry? Now in all REALISM is that going to occur under one roof all the while people dancing in and out of screens changing clothes and sawdust flying from sawhorses as the smell of glue and glandular secretions of insects permiates the air?
Let it rest.People are going to leave pack oxen in places you dont like. People are going to be short of time and take a horse somewhere because it's more convienient than to dismount.
If it bothers you that much then perhaps you need to step back and look at it as a game where YOU are not the nidus.If you want to get upset about something there are far more injustices in the world than upsetting a level of immersion.How about the 20th aniversary of Tiananmen Square for example?*kicks away her soap box*
Living in a town does not equate with living in a more remote part of the world, the opposite, in fact; the town is the center of the world for a lot of people.