Yesterday we ran across Mary Blood Axe who had clearly died and returned to the bindstone. She was hamming it up about a Drow attack, and being half-delirious, etc... good RP. As we responded to her, we wanted to say, "Mary, let us accompany you back to your grave," but initially kept it to, "You don't look so good. How can we help", etc.
Zerpa was just updating her character journal and wanted to write about my own, later, encounter, that killed me. She didn't know if you can talk about "death", etc.
So ... do people in the game know about death and bindstones and the soul mother, etc. When you see someone half-transparent, should you say, "I'll bring you to your grave to pray?" Is this game mechanics, or all valid in character?