What I think is all GM characters should have the WL wand or the equivalence, that could then hand out XP if they stumble in party that are rping well to them. This way they don't have to be necessarily on as a gm, and while they can enjoy playing their char they could also able to dispense the good rp bonus xp, when they see fit.
For what it's worth, I am much better about handing out XP as a GM than I am as a WL. Why? I just forget! Or I remember early on in the RP, but by the time it's over, it completely slips my mind. So for anyone who RPs with Connor and wonders why he's being such a stingy WL, don't blame him. His forgetful puppet-master is the blame.
Exactly. We get caught up in the moments as well.
I like to see IC drama even if that means arguments/plotting against one another (if you are one of those types).