I have never been able to receive one. Everyone always sends them to my wife's toon and labels them "If you are with Daralith, please give this to him" (which i find hilarious OOC because she is an illiterate barbarian) and then in OOC at the bottom they say "sorry but was unable to send message to daralith, it said error".
AT least 6 different people have told me this and sent messages to my group members to give to me. I am able to send messages with out problem, but can not receive