1. Playing does not = getting XPYes NWN is a goal driven system but Layo does not have to be. 2. If a RP session is spontaneously happening go with it.Yes it means that sometimes (hopefully most times) you wont be running off to kill things. But you will spend time talking about the events of the world or developing some depth to your PC. Interrupting a RP session or breaking away from one to go get XP is in my opinion not in the spirit of Layo. 3. Witty banter while running around killing things is super light weight RP at its best. Take the time to stop and talk and enjoy the stories and company of who you are with. Of course there are times when you are just trying to barrel your way out of the deep so you don't have to log out down there .4. Do interesting things with your PC when developing it.You don't have to build a super perfect build every time.5. Power leveling is not, again in my opinion, in the spirit of Layo.It is not a race to 40th level. I know that at times many of us get caught up in that race but every level and stage is fun.