Thank you, Gal..Ben despises pixies for that very reason..they want his job! :p
I agree! I cringe every time I see someone use a fairy as a familiar. In this other server based on the Underdark, if a Dark Elf had a pixie familiar that person was killed along with the familiar due to the fact that pixies are seen as malignant and obscure in the Underdark. The player used the pixie mainly for locks and traps and claimed that the character enslaved the creature and tortures it annually (If that were the case, then the pixie's frail body would have not handled it). There are a ton of other familiars to choose from, and since they're not that good in combat, we can still use them in RP! I love my raven familiar and I often use him as a scout of sorts as well as my all-seeing eye. I picture my mage much like the people in the Golden Compass and their demon familiars, which makes it kinda cool. So, yeah, I give this my support!
maybe the answer should be.... common sense on the mages part
I have heard of GMs saying that if a pixie is used to deal with traps or locks on the quest it will die from some pixie disease. That usually keeps the pixies hidden.