A lot of the in fighting that Chongo was writing about are very prevalent in group structures and organizations. One of the things that I have said to new players via Tell, is that "Layonara is like starting at a new school. It seems a bit lonely at first, as it takes a little time to make new friends." When you think about it, it really is. We are people with various degrees of experience, and administration. We have first impressions and clicks.What I try to remember, is that I am here to have fun. I am not here to live up to anyone else's standards. I am not here to produce drama for others. I am here to have a good time. I obey the server rules, because I know that if I don't, I will have a bad time. I try to live up to the spirit of the server, because I like the spirit of the server. Don't expect me to be perfect, I make no claims to be a professional game player, or RP developer. We are all armatures here, as this a hobby. Relax and have a good time AeonBlues