You just haven't tried being hostile to the right ones I guess...
I'm all for making monstrous folks incognito, but just make certain not to metagame knowledge of somebody's race because it pops up on the server status page.
The helmets are hideous so I chose the hood! :p Yeah, I've noticed quite a trend with the metagaming, when meeting a new character they immediately do a spot check on me, but not on my other hooded friends. Sometimes even doing a spot check on me while having barkskin :|
What Interia suggests is generally the better route to go than a spot check. Good RP is RP that allows for communication both OOC and IC, and in which each player works with the rest to develop his/her character rather than using mechanics (like spot checks) to override player communication. As much as is possible, I suggest reserving checks for NPCs, with the exception being that the other player asks you to roll a check. Sure, someone could refuse, even when obvious, to admit some aspect of their character, but nine times out of ten, it's the other way around, with players being forced via unwanted mechanical checks to give some secret about their character that they'd prefer to be discovered via RP rather than through numbers. Roleplay vs. Rollplay.
The problem is bad players metagaming the knowledge, suspicion, etc.
I don't think it should be called bad players. I don't think anyone has the right to call another that. Yes there is a lot that metagame and some just get more upset over than others. Many are still learning the ropes. Often a polite tell helps out.
But I don't think there is any way a hood is going to hide someones whole face. That is only a game mechanics that hides the face. I don't even see how a helmet would even hide the color of someone skin. You see their eyelids so your going to see the color of them.
Also I think there is more tolerance in dark elf since there is one that is high standing in the world of Layo and often sitting uncovered out on the benches of Hempstead.
Nothing against the character or the player. But if one can prove themselves to be worthy shouldn't others be able to prove themselves.
If all dark elves should be killed on sight.. What if someone that has never been to Hempstead before walks in and sees that dark elf standing say in Hempstead fields and they try to kill her.. what would happen?